Michael Lopacki, of Michael John Photography, lets brides in on some tips to help make your wedding day perfect.
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
From the moment you say ‘yes’ to your future spouse, the questions, phone calls and emails, vendor visits and more can get overwhelming. But there are some things that you shouldn’t have to stress about. Michael Lopacki, of BOLI Preferred Vendor Michael John Photography, has given us an inside look at some “secrets” wedding photographers want you to know that might make your wedding planning less stressful.
1. Book Your Photographers Early
Everyone knows to start researching and touring venues ASAP. But photographers, especially smaller companies, can book out 18 months to two years in advance. “I’m pretty much all booked out for 2026, and I even have about 15 weddings planned for 2027 already,” says Lopacki. “Since it’s just me, I do book up quickly. And I know other independent photographers also book up quickly, especially if you want a popular date like a Saturday in June or July.”
Lopacki suggests checking out photographers as soon as you have your date booked. Then you can put your mind at ease that you’ll get your first choice.
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2. Consider A Weekday Wedding
This one may not be a secret when it comes to your venue, as most brides know that they may get a lower rate by booking a Thursday wedding. However, some vendors – including photographers – may also offer lower rates for weekday weddings. “I do give a little bit of a discount for a Thursday wedding,” says Lopacki. “I love a good Thursday wedding. I’m all about it!”
In addition to saving a little money, there’s a good chance that your favorite photographer will have better availability during the week.
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
3. Book that Engagement Shoot
While some couples may feel too busy for an engagement shoot, it’s worth considering — especially if it’s included in your photography package. “An engagement shoot is a great way to get to know your photographer and understand how they work,” says Lopacki. “It also helps you get comfortable in front of the camera. Couples often feel a bit awkward at first, but the shoot gives you a chance to relax and learn some of the cues I use to make your wedding day photos look perfect.”
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
4. Check Out Indoor Locations
Indoor locations are very popular right now, whether it’s for your engagement photo shoot or your wedding day. “I would say one out of every six engagement shoots I do are inside,” says Lopacki. “Some suggest a bar setting, while venues are letting couples explore the grounds during the week for engagement photos.”
Lopacki suggests checking out some indoor locations for your wedding day, starting with your venue. “Everyone wants beautiful weather on their wedding day,” says Lopacki. “But not all amazing photos need to be outside. Indoor photos are gorgeous at so many venues on Long Island.”
5. Don’t Worry About the Weather
Weather happens and we can’t control it. Sometimes it rains, sometimes it snows, sometimes you’ll face a nor’easter. Whatever happens though, Lopacki assures brides they’ll still have the best wedding photos. In addition to considering indoor photo spots in case of inclement weather, you could always trust your photographer to take the most amazing rain photos. “You never really have to worry about the weather with me,” Lopacki says. “I use different lighting techniques and tricks so I can make it look like you’re outside – even if you’re just under an awning.”
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
6. Trust the Timeline
Your photographer will create a detailed timeline for your wedding day — and while waking up early for hair and makeup might not seem ideal, it’s all part of ensuring everything runs smoothly. “So many different elements go into your wedding day,” says Lopacki. “Couples don’t always realize how long certain things take, so it’s important to trust us when we’re building your timeline.”
As a bonus ‘secret,’ Lopacki shares his enthusiasm for working alongside content creators. “Content creators and I work really well together,” he says. “I love the instant gratification couples get the day after their wedding — they can share those moments with loved ones right away. It’s such a popular and exciting trend, and I don’t see it going away anytime soon.”
Much like a second photographer who captures candid, behind-the-scenes moments, Lopacki sees content creators as a valuable addition to the wedding day team — perfect for documenting the raw, emotional highlights that couples will cherish forever.