These beautiful sites in Suffolk County are sure to make your engagement photos special.
Long Island is filled with so many beautiful places to take engagement photos. And we know that with all of the wedding planning you’ve got going on, the thought of finding a location for an engagement shoot is the last thing on your mind.
Sometimes your photographer will have a suggestion for you. But if they don’t and you have no idea where to start, don’t worry! Long Island, specifically Suffolk County, is filled with hidden gems and beautiful grounds. From parks to fields, below are seven places to take engagement photos in Suffolk County.
Sites That Require a Permit
Argyle Park
Located in Babylon, this park has a lake and a beautiful waterfall, making for a great backdrop for all your photos. If you’re a Babylon Village resident, there is no fee. If you’re not a resident, there is a $100 fee. Either way, you need to fill out a permit application to take photos here. Call the Babylon Village Hall at (631) 669-1500 for more information.
Bayard Cutting Arboretum
This ‘museum of trees’ is filled with spots to make your photo session memorable. There is a $250 fee for 1.5 hours on the grounds. There is also an $8 fee to park. Photo sessions start at 11 a.m., with the last one starting at 2 p.m., and are first-come, first-serve. Click here to download the permit application.
Lake Ronkonkoma
The lake and view is perfect for fall photos. Since it is a Suffolk County park, there could be a fee and a permit might be required. You can find out more information here.
Sunflower Fields
The East End has great farms, so why not check out a sunflower field for your engagement photos? Waterdrinkers Farm allows photos for a small fee of $25/hour. Click here for more information.
Sites Do Not Require a Permit
Islip Grange Park
Located in Sayville, this park might be the perfect location for you. It has historic buildings, such as a church and a barn, a field and more. And the best part, you don’t need a permit and there is no fee to take photos here.
Lighthouse at Robert Moses
This western-most point of Fire Island offers almost five miles of beach, beautiful, hidden paths and, of course, the lighthouse. Since this is a state park, you shouldn’t need a permit, but you could pay parking fees. You can click here for more information.
Port Jefferson
From the small beaches to the docks and shops along Main Street, downtown Port Jeff or ‘Down Port,’ is a great place to take photos. You shouldn’t need a permit, but make sure you aren’t on private property along the shore. Click here for more info.
If you’re still at a loss, don’t want to pay a fee or don’t want to get a permit, get creative! Perhaps you, a family member or friend have a large yard. Maybe you live near a park or trail where you can take photos. You could even check with your wedding venue and see if you can use their grounds during off hours for your engagement photos. Or think back to a place where maybe you met your spouse – your favorite bar, bowling alley – and take pictures there.
No matter where you go, remember to just have fun and enjoy this time together!
BOLI Preferred Venue The Old Field Club offers picturesque charm and unparalleled service
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When it comes to choosing the perfect Long Island wedding venue, couples dream of a place that feels timeless, romantic, and uniquely theirs. Nestled along the picturesque waters of Long Island’s North Shore, BOLI Preferred Venue The Old Field Club in East Setauket is exactly that — a private and award-winning venue that offers breathtaking waterfront views, personalized service and an “exclusively yours” experience that makes every wedding unforgettable.
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One Wedding at a Time
At The Old Field Club, the whole team ensures that your love story is the only story that matters. Unlike larger venues that may host multiple weddings in one day, The Old Field Club has a proud tradition of hosting just one wedding at a time. This exclusivity means you and your guests will enjoy the full attention of the Private Club’s Executive Team, ensuring every detail runs seamlessly.
From your first planning meeting to your last dance, you’ll feel the difference that personalized, attentive service makes.
The Beauty of a Waterfront Wedding
Outdoor ceremonies at The Old Field Club are truly magical. Imagine exchanging vows surrounded by the sparkling waters of the North Shore as your backdrop!
For couples who prefer an indoor setting, the elegant ballroom offers a rustic yet refined space, complete with wood-beamed ceilings, glistening chandeliers, a working fireplace and French doors that open to a waterside deck. Rain or shine, every couple has a picture-perfect ceremony option.
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Rustic Charm Meets Timeless Elegance
Brides searching for a venue that blends rustic charm with modern elegance will fall in love with The Old Field Club. With its versatile spaces like the charming Lagoon Room for cocktail hour to the tastefully restored ballroom, every space offers the perfect canvas to bring your wedding vision to life. Whether your style is classic and romantic, modern and chic, or somewhere in between, The Old Field Club adapts beautifully to your theme.
A Culinary Experience to Remember
Food is always one of the most memorable parts of any wedding and The Old Field Club delivers an exceptional dining experience. Couples work with the Club’s culinary team to design menus that reflect their style, from cocktail hour hors d’oeuvres to decadent plated dinners and late-night treats.
Guests can also enjoy premium bar service, including top-shelf spirits, curated wines, and champagne toasts. Every bite is prepared with care, ensuring your wedding is remembered as much for the dining as for the dancing.
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5 Reasons Why Brides Love The Old Field Club
- EXCLUSIVITY – ONE WEDDING, ONE LOVE STORY.
At The Old Field Club, you’ll never share your day with another couple. Our team is dedicated entirely to you, giving your wedding the focus and attention it deserves. From your arrival to your last dance, your love story is the only one being celebrated. - LOCATION – A WATERFRONT OASIS.
Nestled on Long Island’s stunning North Shore, the Club offers breathtaking water views that create the perfect backdrop for unforgettable moments and photographs you’ll treasure forever. - VERSATILITY – SPACES THAT MATCH YOUR VISION.
Whether you dream of an outdoor ceremony surrounded by nature, an elegant ballroom reception, or both, The Old Field Club offers flexible indoor and outdoor options that ensure your day feels perfectly yours. - CUISINE – DINING DESIGNED AROUND YOU.
The Old Field Club’s highly acclaimed culinary team uses the freshest seasonal ingredients to craft menus that are as memorable as they are delicious. Every dish is thoughtfully prepared to reflect your taste and vision. From elegant hors d’oeuvres to multi-course dinners and decadent desserts, your guests will experience the perfect blend of flavor, presentation and hospitality. - CHARM & ELEGANCE – RUSTIC ROMANCE MEETS TIMELESS STYLE.
With its combination of warm, rustic character and sophisticated detail, The Old Field Club is the perfect balance of cozy intimacy and elevated elegance. It’s a venue that feels both welcoming and unforgettable.
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Plan Your Wedding at The Old Field Club
Your wedding day should be a once-in-a-lifetime experience in a setting as unforgettable as your love story. At The Old Field Club, that dream becomes reality.
Private tours are available by appointment only and dates for 2026 are already filling quickly.
If you’re a bride-to-be searching for the perfect Long Island wedding venue, discover the beauty and exclusivity of The Old Field Club — your hidden gem on the North Shore where memories are made to last a lifetime.
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In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, we spoke with Victoria Elizabeth about working with her friends to bring her glam wedding to life.
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
Victoria Elizabeth, founder of BOLI Preferred Vendor Victoria Elizabeth Official, has spent her career making brides look their very best on their wedding day. But on April 27, 2025, it was her turn to sit in the makeup chair and say ‘I do.’ And she made sure to do it up big – working with her best friend Kristin from Eventful Days, she planned the beautiful glam wedding of her dreams.
Judged By His Heart
Victoria and Taylor met online in 2020. He was living in Texas and eight years her junior, and she was in New York. “I originally didn’t think it could work out,” she said. “But then he said to me, ‘Don’t judge a man by his appearance or age, judge him by his heart.’ So I gave him a shot.” After a year of long-distance conversations, Taylor moved to Long Island to be with her. “It was a bit of a culture shock for him, but he became a New Yorker pretty quickly,” Victoria said. “He even picked up a New York accent!”
Four years later, Taylor proposed in the most meaningful way. On his first visit, Victoria took him to Montauk Manor where they sat on a hill. He asked her to be his girlfriend, promising that one day he’d return to that same spot to ask her to be his wife. “It seemed like a trick though, because we go there every year,” she said. “Last year was different though, when he pulled out a ring, making good on his promise.” And when she said yes, her parents emerged from the Montauk Manor to celebrate the moment.
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
Nine Months to Plan
The couple wasted no time diving into wedding planning. “Once we got engaged, my first call was to Kristin,” said Victoria. “She immediately sprang into action, bringing her signature expertise and passion to every detail.” Together they curated a dream team of vendors, including Heather Pauline Photography, a fellow BOLI Preferred Vendor, who got to know Victoria and Taylor as a couple so she could shape the visual storytelling of their day. From engagement shoots in Miami to intimate moments on Long Island, Heather’s work became a cornerstone of the celebration.
When it came to choosing a venue, Peconic Bay Yacht Club was an obvious choice. “It’s one of Kristin’s favorites, and I’m a preferred vendor there,” Victoria said. “Plus, I had been to several weddings there, and I knew it could be transformed to our style.” While Taylor’s love of the water made the location feel personal, Victoria’s vision leaned full glam. With Kristin’s guidance and the support of venue directors John and Hillary, they brought the elegance of the Plaza Hotel to the East End. From luxe florals to elevated design choices, the result was a dazzling departure from the venue’s typical rustic charm.
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
The Glam Effect
To bring their vision to life, Victoria transformed the Peconic Bay Yacht Club from top to bottom. “We brought in everything, the tables, chairs, napkins, glasses, silverware. If I could have brought in the chandelier, I would have,” she laughed. A custom bar and photo station added personalized flair, and every detail was curated to reflect their glamorous aesthetic. “It was a white box—we got rid of everything Peconic had and made it our own.”
Victoria and Taylor also added some meaningful details into the wedding that reflected their personalities and love story. Guests were greeted with signature drinks – Victoria’s favorite, a dirty martini dubbed the “Dirty V,” and an energy drink, a nod to Taylor’s alcohol-free lifestyle. Each cocktail napkin featured a Bible verse about love, adding a heartfelt layer to every toast. And the couple leaned into an Italian-inspired vibe, complete with a Frank Sinatra-style singer.
On Cloud Nine – Literally
For Victoria, the ceremony held profound meaning. “I had a very hard time meeting someone, I never thought it would happen,” she shared. She carefully chose the songs and set the tone for a moment that felt more spiritual than scripted. “I just wanted whatever was going to happen to happen,” she said. As she walked down the aisle on the balcony at Peconic Bay Yacht Club, emotion washed over her. “I felt like someone was carrying me in a cloud. I was crying, and I just felt like God was saying, ‘I’m giving you what I promised you,’” she said. “And then when a gust of wind lifted my veil over Taylor’s head, it looked so beautiful. When you look back on the pictures, my veil covers him, and it looks like the two becoming one. It was such a surreal, divine moment.”
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
Having the Right People
Her picture perfect wedding day wouldn’t have been possible without her powerhouse team of vendors, many of whom she’s proud to call friends. From Heather Pauline’s deeply personal photography to Kristin’s seamless planning, every detail was executed with heart. Vincent Salvatore crafted a cake that mirrored Victoria’s vision, while Gino from Dolce & Gelato, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, added a whimsical touch by dressing in a cannoli costume when it came time to serve the dessert. And at BOLI Preferred Vendor Bridal Reflections, Victoria found her perfect Galia Lahav gown in a moment of serendipity – one that made her feel radiant, emotional and deeply connected to her grandmother. “They all stood out for very good reasons,” she said. “It’s so hard to pick just one that made the day.”
As a beauty professional in the wedding industry, Victoria had a unique advantage during her planning process: her own clients. “If I wasn’t in the business, I wouldn’t have even known what to ask,” she admitted. During makeup trials, she’d turn the tables and ask her brides for tips. “One girl told me about ring boxes for the detail shots, and other small touches I hadn’t considered,” said Victoria. “My fellow brides really helped me think through the details.”
Now with her dream day behind her, Victoria wants to remind brides about the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people. “Having the right people beside you makes all the difference. If someone’s bringing negative energy, don’t include them,” she said. “This day is about you and your husband. Protect that joy. You deserve to feel completely supported and loved.”
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
Vendors:
Venue: Peconic Bay Yacht Club
Photographer: Heather Pauline Photography, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Videography: AJ Ingoglia Wedding Films
DJ: Mystical Entertainment Group
Florist: Pedestals Floral Decorators
Hair/Makeup: Victoria Elizabeth Official, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Dress: Bridal Reflections, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Cake: Vincenzo Salvatore Cakes
Tuxedos: B2Bespoke
Planner: Kristin and Jahniece at Eventful Days
Content Creator: So Bridal Social
Custom Backdrop: LitBarNYC
Rentals: Luxe Event Rentals and The Finishing Touch NY, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Invitations: Harley Blue Design NY
Cannoli King: Dolce & Gelato, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Headpiece: Christie Lauren Headpieces
(Photo by Heather Pauline Photography)
Ready to pop the question? Here are a few ways to make your proposal special.
BOLI, this one is for your future spouse 😉
You’ve been wanting to propose for a while, and you want to make it special. Getting on one knee is great and everything, but you really want to wow your (hopefully) future fiancé, and create a memory they’ll share with their loved ones for the rest of their lives.
Fortunately, there are plenty of ways to make the moment stand out! Here are 8 unique ideas for your proposal.
Image by Krystal Rose Photography, courtesy of Sweet Harmony
1. Live Music
Can you imagine how romantic it would be to pop the question with a live violinist, or a string quartet, or even a guitarist providing a beautiful soundtrack? Live musicians like BOLI Preferred Vendor Sweet Harmony can enrich your proposal with, well, sweet harmonies! They’ve even got a live music guide for marriage proposals, so you can select the right melodies for the moment.
2. Involve friends and family
You know everyone is going to be over the moon once they hear the news, so let them in on things right from the start! Make them a part of your proposal by asking them to hold up signs, bring your future fiancé to that “perfect” spot on the beach, or pop out and yell “surprise!” after the inevitable “yes!”
Image courtesy of Yellow House Images
3. Revisit one of your special places…
Where did you first meet your future fiancé? A bar, a ballpark, a gas station? It doesn’t matter where that place is, it holds special meaning for the both of you. Choosing the place where it all began is a wonderful way to make your proposal special, and brings your love story full circle.
Nestled on the quiet shores of East Setauket, BOLI Preferred Venue The Old Field Club is where elegant tradition meets effortless romance.
4. …or choose a new place you’ll always remember
Maybe your future fiancé has always wanted to go to France. Or maybe they’re dying to hike a scenic route upstate! Or maybe a peaceful beach in Aruba is more their speed. If they’ve been mentioning a location they’ve always wanted to visit, it might be the perfect opportunity to cement that place into your histories.
Image courtesy of JS Visions Photography and Cinematography
5. Create a scavenger hunt
Does your future fiancé love solving mysteries and traveling around town? A scavenger hunt is a fun and active way to pop the question! Just make sure you have someone guarding the ring at the final location.
6. A surprise within your routine
You know that Saturday mornings mean coffee in bed together. Serve your future fiancé’s coffee with a side of diamond (or opal, or emeralds, or sapphires…you get the picture). Popping the question when they least expect it will create a moment they’ll never forget.
Image courtesy of Foxlight Studios
7. Incorporate their hobbies
Is your future fiancé a crossword addict? Let them know about this brand new, super fun puzzle you found. The theme will lead to wedding bells! Think about their interests and hobbies, and find a way to propose using their favorite pastimes.
8. Recruit your furry friend
Your dog or cat (or even your hamster!) is part of your family. Let them in on the festivities too! Tying the ring around your fur babies collar will save your knees from a few scrapes, as long as they don’t tend to outrun their leash!
Choosing the right wedding officiant can make or break your ceremony.
(Photo courtesy of The Glenmar Studio)
If you’re not getting married in a religious institution, you may need to find an officiant who can legally marry you. Choosing the right wedding officiant can be tough, as they will set the pace for your ceremony and the start of your wedding. So, you’ll want to find the perfect one who jives with you and your future spouse. But do NOT stress! Brides of Long Island has 10 of the best Long Island wedding officiants for you to choose from.
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LI Officiant
Michele LaRosa works with couples from any and all backgrounds. She works with each couple to create the perfect ceremony, as she knows it sets the tone for the whole day. She loves to create ceremonies that showcase and honor each couple’s story.
(Photo courtesy of Personalized Weddings by Reverend Bill)
Personalized Weddings by Rev. Bill
Rev. Bill prides himself on writing and performing personalized wedding ceremonies that focus on the couple. He even officiated his son’s wedding!
(Photo courtesy of Long Island Wedding Officiants)
Long Island Wedding Officiants
Long Island Wedding Officiants, formerly Officiants at Church of Ancient Ways, was founded in 1997 by Pastor April. Together with Rev. Joe, they lead an amazing team of wedding officiants. They never say no, as they will create any type of ceremony for all couples.
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NY Officiants
With over 23 years experience in the wedding industry, Minister Christopher has officiated hundreds of weddings. Growing up in the industry, he has worked for entertainment companies as a master of ceremonies and even a wedding event coordinator. But Christopher believes officiating couples’ weddings is his true calling – and he can’t wait to connect to share in your special day.
(Photo courtesy of Rabbi Brian Denker)
Rabbi Brian Denker
Rabbi Brian is an independent rabbi and Interfaith lifecycle officiant. He has extensive experience working with couples and families from all walks of life that identify as Jewish, Interfaith, LGBTQA+ and more who are looking to celebrate their one-of-a-kind relationships.
(Photo courtesy of Rabbi Sara Shonfeld)
Rabbi Sara Shonfeld
Sara Shonfeld is an ordained rabbi and interfaith officiant. She was born and raised in Israel, and has been officiating Jewish, interfaith, spiritual, civil and intercultural ceremonies on Long Island for more than 10 years. She believes being part of a couples’ journey and special day is an honor, and works with you to create a custom ceremony that includes your personal love story.
(Photo courtesy of TAG Studios – Quintessence Ministry)
TAG Studio – Quintessence Ministry
Russ Camarda established Quintessence Ministry to recognize the union of two souls as an incredibly sacred event. Quintessence wants to share that special story in a way that is memorable and unique to you and your future spouse. Their officiants are nondenominational, but rather guided by an inclusive spiritual philosophy that honors all faith traditions.
(Photo courtesy of Rabbi Ron Csillag)
Rabbi Ron Csillag
Rabbi Ron entered the wedding industry with a mission: to help couples create ceremonies that truly reflect their values and personalities. He brings a fresh, personalized approach to every celebration, working closely with each couple as a team. His specialty lies in empowering them to honor their union in a way that feels authentic, meaningful and entirely their own.
(Photo courtesy of Sarah Gutmann Long Island Offciant)
Sarah Gutmann Long Island Officiant
Sarah believes your wedding ceremony is a great opportunity to revisit the moments that make up your love story – from the early beginnings to your wedding day. She prides herself on making the ceremony planning process fun, romantic and stress-free, ensuring that it reflects your values, spiritual or non-spiritual needs, traditions and heritage.
(Photo courtesy of Interfaith Jewish Catholic Weddings)
Interfaith Jewish Catholic Weddings
Rabbi David Katz and Father Michael Callahan have been officiating interfaith wedding ceremonies for more than 40 years combined. They help couples plan a ceremony that is balanced, heartfelt and personal – and one that is sensitive to all families involved.
Just as with any vendor, you want to make sure you get exactly what you want when you start speaking with officiants. If you are very specific about how you want your ceremony, be sure to ask those questions up front to make sure the officiant can create your dream ceremony.
This article is sponsored by Westbury Manor, a Brides of Long Island Preferred Venue!
Unfortunately, RSVPs aren’t that simple
We all look at our guess list and make predictions on who will actually make it. Aunt Susan and Uncle Jim? Definite yeses. That old sorority sister you’re only inviting because you feel obligated? Probably not.
But every once in a while, our predictions can be way off. Our “definites” end up surprising us by checking the “no” box on our RSVPs. When that happens, sometimes it can feel…well, a little hurtful. Why don’t they want to celebrate your most important day? You made it to their wedding, why can’t they reciprocate?
If you’ve read through your fair share of posts in the Brides of Long Island Facebook group, you’ve probably seen this common lament. And well-meaning fellow brides will often share a popular take:”If they want to come to my wedding, they will.” Meaning if your wedding is important enough, they’ll figure out a way to attend.
Here’s the thing, though — life is rarely, if ever, that black and white.
Image courtesy of JoVon Photography
Planning a wedding is a major part of your life, but it isn’t the only part of your life. You have family, work, and friends to think about too. You may even have children or be responsible for an aging parent. You may have pets, you may be juggling several side gigs, you may be dealing with a demanding boss, or you may be trying your best to get out of debt. You may even have health concerns you aren’t sharing with anyone, or you may be struggling with an issue in your relationship.
Those are all possible factors in your guests’ lives, too. As much as we may think we know someone, we don’t know everything going on. You may have a friend or family member that wants to come to your wedding more than anything, but they only have a certain number of days off work and they have to save them for their own purposes. Or they don’t have reliable childcare. Or they can’t swing a cross-country plane ticket, give you a nice wedding gift, and pay their past due credit card bill in the same month. You get the picture.
Image courtesy of Heritage House
When you write off a “no” RSVP as someone simply not wanting to attend your wedding, you’re taking their lack of attendance personally when it’s most likely not. They may even feel worse about it than you do! Taking offense will negatively impact your relationship, possibly at a time when they really need your love and support.
What should you do when you get a surprise “no”?
If you’re shocked by an out-of-the-blue decline, take some time to breathe. You don’t want to act on impulse, and you don’t want to say or do something you regret later.
The best course of action is to communicate in a positive, uplifting way. Saying something like “I’m so sorry you can’t make it, but we know you’ll be celebrating with us in spirit” lets them know you’ll miss their presence but you understand that they’ll be thinking of you.
If you’re concerned that something may be wrong, check in on them without demanding answers. Saying something like “I got your RSVP, I’m so sad to see you can’t attend. If you need anything, even just to talk, I’m always here.” They may feel comfortable enough to explain their decline, or they may not. But they’ll definitely know that you care about them.
Michael Lopacki, of Michael John Photography, lets brides in on some tips to help make your wedding day perfect.
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
From the moment you say ‘yes’ to your future spouse, the questions, phone calls and emails, vendor visits and more can get overwhelming. But there are some things that you shouldn’t have to stress about. Michael Lopacki, of BOLI Preferred Vendor Michael John Photography, has given us an inside look at some “secrets” wedding photographers want you to know that might make your wedding planning less stressful.
1. Book Your Photographers Early
Everyone knows to start researching and touring venues ASAP. But photographers, especially smaller companies, can book out 18 months to two years in advance. “I’m pretty much all booked out for 2026, and I even have about 15 weddings planned for 2027 already,” says Lopacki. “Since it’s just me, I do book up quickly. And I know other independent photographers also book up quickly, especially if you want a popular date like a Saturday in June or July.”
Lopacki suggests checking out photographers as soon as you have your date booked. Then you can put your mind at ease that you’ll get your first choice.
MORE: Michael John Photography Makes Sure Your Wedding Day Is All About You
2. Consider A Weekday Wedding
This one may not be a secret when it comes to your venue, as most brides know that they may get a lower rate by booking a Thursday wedding. However, some vendors – including photographers – may also offer lower rates for weekday weddings. “I do give a little bit of a discount for a Thursday wedding,” says Lopacki. “I love a good Thursday wedding. I’m all about it!”
In addition to saving a little money, there’s a good chance that your favorite photographer will have better availability during the week.
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
3. Book that Engagement Shoot
While some couples may feel too busy for an engagement shoot, it’s worth considering — especially if it’s included in your photography package. “An engagement shoot is a great way to get to know your photographer and understand how they work,” says Lopacki. “It also helps you get comfortable in front of the camera. Couples often feel a bit awkward at first, but the shoot gives you a chance to relax and learn some of the cues I use to make your wedding day photos look perfect.”
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
4. Check Out Indoor Locations
Indoor locations are very popular right now, whether it’s for your engagement photo shoot or your wedding day. “I would say one out of every six engagement shoots I do are inside,” says Lopacki. “Some suggest a bar setting, while venues are letting couples explore the grounds during the week for engagement photos.”
Lopacki suggests checking out some indoor locations for your wedding day, starting with your venue. “Everyone wants beautiful weather on their wedding day,” says Lopacki. “But not all amazing photos need to be outside. Indoor photos are gorgeous at so many venues on Long Island.”
5. Don’t Worry About the Weather
Weather happens and we can’t control it. Sometimes it rains, sometimes it snows, sometimes you’ll face a nor’easter. Whatever happens though, Lopacki assures brides they’ll still have the best wedding photos. In addition to considering indoor photo spots in case of inclement weather, you could always trust your photographer to take the most amazing rain photos. “You never really have to worry about the weather with me,” Lopacki says. “I use different lighting techniques and tricks so I can make it look like you’re outside – even if you’re just under an awning.”
(Photo courtesy of Michael John Photography)
6. Trust the Timeline
Your photographer will create a detailed timeline for your wedding day — and while waking up early for hair and makeup might not seem ideal, it’s all part of ensuring everything runs smoothly. “So many different elements go into your wedding day,” says Lopacki. “Couples don’t always realize how long certain things take, so it’s important to trust us when we’re building your timeline.”
As a bonus ‘secret,’ Lopacki shares his enthusiasm for working alongside content creators. “Content creators and I work really well together,” he says. “I love the instant gratification couples get the day after their wedding — they can share those moments with loved ones right away. It’s such a popular and exciting trend, and I don’t see it going away anytime soon.”
Much like a second photographer who captures candid, behind-the-scenes moments, Lopacki sees content creators as a valuable addition to the wedding day team — perfect for documenting the raw, emotional highlights that couples will cherish forever.
Presented in partnership with Kleinfeld Bridal, Tornai’s “Kintsugi” features bold looks inspired by the beauty of imperfection.
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
On October 14th, renowned bridal designer Pnina Tornai debuted her latest couture collection, Kintsugi, with a runway show at New York Bridal Fashion Week.
Taking inspiration from the Japanese word meaning “golden joinery,” Kintsugi reflects Tornai’s beliefs that “through acceptance and love, we emerge stronger and more beautiful than before,” according to a press release.
Image by Blaine Siesser Photography
“I don’t believe in camouflaging your cracks — you cannot heal until you acknowledge where you are broken,” Tornai continued. “This collection is about the beauty found in imperfections, once you accept them. Imperfection is a sign of a life truly lived.”
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
Brides of Long Island founder Heather Cunningham was invited to the runway show, and chatted backstage with the designer.
“I really did not have an inspiration, that’s what made this collection such a challenging one,” Tornai told Cunningham. “I always channel my collections and the message that comes with it. With this one, I just knew that I had to create this with gold. Then two weeks before the show, I was crying and I said to myself, ‘I don’t have a name, it’s going to drive me crazy.’ And one of my guys said to me, ‘Why don’t you call it Kinstugi?'”
“I said, ‘What the hell is Kinstugi?” she continued. “And he said, ‘Kinstugi is an ancient Japanese art of mending broken pieces, precious porcelain art, mending it with gold pieces.’ And so I said, ‘Wow, it sounds exactly like what I’m going through. And that will be the name of the collection.'”
Image by Blaine Seisser Photography
Image by Blaine Siesser Photography
Image by Blaine Siesser Photography
Image by Blaine Seisser Photography
Models graced the runway in 28 gowns, ranging from sleek lines to bold, unconventional silhouettes. The finale — a stunning, all-gold piece with a structured bodice, lace veil, and oversized bow — drew gasps and applause from the crowd.
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
Image by Phillip Van Nostrand
Image by Blaine Seisser Photography
Image by Blaine Seisser Photography
The full collection will be available for purchase at Kleinfeld Bridal, with an initial trunk show from October 16 through October 19.
Nassau County is filled with beautiful sites to make your engagement photos special.
Once you start to come down from your high of getting engaged, it will be time to start thinking about wedding planning. Why not extend that excitement a little bit with engagement photos?
Usually, when you hire a photographer, they will offer engagement photos as part of their packages, or they’ll offer you a discount. This is the perfect opportunity to not only get used to taking professional photos, but also get used to the photographer and see how everyone will work together.
But deciding where to take these photos may leave you with even more stress! If your photographer doesn’t have a suggestion and you have no idea where to pick, don’t worry – Nassau County is filled with hidden gems and beautiful grounds. From parks to fields, below are seven of the best places to take engagement photos in Nassau County.
Sites That Require a Permit
Old Westbury Gardens
This property in Old Westbury is a beautiful backdrop with several areas for great photos. You can choose from the walled garden, the rose garden, the cottage garden and more! A permit is required and can be found here. There is a fee for 90 minutes of time. All photos must be taken before 5 p.m.
Planting Fields Arboretum
These picturesque grounds are located in Oyster Bay and would be the perfect location for your engagement photos. A permit is needed and costs $100. Photos inside the Camellia House, which is extremely limited, run $300. There is also a parking fee. You can find more information here.
Sands Point Preserve
The former Guggenheim Estate in Sands Point is the perfect backdrop for your photos, but can be a bit pricey. Outdoor photography, with approved locations ahead of time, runs $350 for a two-hour session, while indoor photography at the historic Hempstead House is $450 for a two-hour session – this also includes a third hour for outdoor photos. Click here for more information and to contact the preserve.
Sites Do Not Require a Permit
Bethpage State Park
This park is famous for its golf courses, but it’s also a beautiful backdrop for your photos. Call ahead to see if there is a fee. But you should just have to pay a parking fee if you don’t have an Empire pass. Click here for more information.
Clark Botanic Gardens
This luscious 12-acre garden is a hidden gem in Albertson. Off the beaten path it’s home to native spring wildflowers, conifers, roses, perennials, daylilies, wetland plants, rock garden plants, herbs, butterfly plants, medicinal plants and over a dozen collections of particular plant families. The garden is free to enjoy, but donations are suggested. Call ahead for the best time to take photos. Find out more here.
Hempstead Lake State Park
Another beautiful park on the South Shore in West Hempstead. It features plenty of trails and locations, including a lake and historic carousel, for picturesque engagement photos. There could be an entrance fee. Find out more here.
Jones Beach State Park
Miles of sandy beach, a beautiful boardwalk and the famous water tower, this could be the perfect backdrop to your engagement photos. Since it’s a state park in Wantagh you shouldn’t need a permit, but there may be a parking fee. You can click here for more information.
If you’re still at a loss, or don’t want to pay a fee or get a permit, you can get creative. Perhaps you or a family member or friend have a large yard. Maybe you live near a park or trail that you can take photos in. You could even check with your wedding venue and see if you can use their grounds during off hours for your engagement photos.
No matter where you go, remember to just have fun and enjoy this time together!
Fine china? Forget it! Here are 6 things you don’t have to include in your registry anymore (despite what your parents and grandparents think!)
Wedding registries used to have a very specific purpose — providing a newlywed couple with everything they’d need to start a home.
Let’s be real, though. It’s 2025, and many of us are starting our homes (and even our families) before we say “I do.” Beyond that, many of the standard, classic items you’d find on a registry would probably end up gathering dust in the back of your closet.
Despite what some older friends and relatives may think, here are 6 things you don’t have to include in your registry anymore (that is, of course, unless you want to!)
1. Fine china and full service silverware
Unless you throw frequent fancy dinner parties for 8 or more people, registering for fine china and full service silverware is a waste. They might be nice to have at the holidays, but chances are they won’t see the light of day for more than one or two meals a year…if that.
Image courtesy of Heather Jean Photography
2. Speciality entertaining pieces
Again — unless you’re known for your dinner parties, things like cheese platters, Lazy Susans, and tiered trays tend to just take up space.
3. Fancy glass wear and crystal
Items like these may be nice to have as family heirlooms, but they rarely serve any day-to-day purposes in our homes. Consider including one nice vase or statement piece on your list and leave it at that.
4. Trendy kitchen gadgets
Okay, that Instagram ad with the machine that makes cocktails like a Keurig? You tapped “save” SO fast. But big, trendy kitchen gadgets take up A LOT of real estate in your kitchen, and usually don’t get used all that much.
5. Anything that strongly matches your current kitchen decor
Yes, that red checkered dutch oven IS adorable. Do you think you’ll have the exact same vibes in your kitchen for the next 20 years, though? It’s best to go with more neutral hues so you can continue to use the item regardless of your current interior design.
6. “Staples” that you know you won’t use
We all know and love the KitchenAid stand mixer. But before you add it to your registry, ask yourself this question: how often do you bake? If the answer isn’t “a lot,” you’re better off registering for something else. The same goes for other kitchen staples like blenders, air fryers, etc. Think of how often you’re likely to use these items. “Staples” aren’t staples for everyone!