In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Lindsay tells us about the in-depth research she did to create her perfect day at RGNY Vineyard.
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
Although Lindsay and Nico first connected online, they ran in the same crowd so they believe their paths would have crossed eventually. Eight years later, they celebrated the love that had grown between them in front of family and friends, made even more meaningful by a dear friend who officiated their wedding. Having that friend officiate made the ceremony feel deeply personal, adding an unforgettable touch to their celebration.
A Fateful Swipe
When Lindsay swiped right on Nico in 2017, she had no idea they already shared mutual friends — including her cousin. “We actually grew up about five minutes from each other,” she said. “When I met his friends for the first time, my cousin was in the room! And he was friends with people I went to high school with.”
With so many connections, their bond grew naturally over the years, leading to a summer 2024 day trip to Montauk with Lindsay’s brother and his girlfriend. “And then Nico proposed at the Lighthouse,” she recalled. “Turns out, my brother was there to take photos of us getting engaged!”
Building Her Dream Wedding
Lindsay and Nico wasted no time diving into plans for their November 8, 2025 wedding at RGNY Vineyard. Once the venue was booked, they quickly realized they would need to bring in their own vendors. “RGNY made things easy when it came to vendors, since they provided a long list,” she said. “We could have chosen anyone we wanted, but for catering we did have to stick to their eight or nine preferred caterers.”
Photography was the most important vendor for Lindsay, followed closely by hair and makeup. “I think for Nico, photography was important as well,” she said. “He also wanted a content creator. He thought that was such a unique and special thing.”
With RGNY serving as a blank canvas, Lindsay and Nico embraced the freedom to design a celebration that reflected their personalities. “We had a black tie wedding, but the vineyard itself is rustic and a little bit boho,” Lindsay said. “I always made a joke — it was like Black Tie Barnyard wedding. We wanted it to feel very relaxed and comfortable, but also very elegant.”
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
Their color scheme of black and silver, accented with greenery and plenty of disco balls, created a vibe that was both chic and playful. The couple took care to interview each vendor, ensuring they felt comfortable with the people who would play such a big role in their day. “We had a really, really great process,” Lindsay shared. “I’m so thankful for all of our vendors…we took a lot of care when we picked them, and I had such an amazing experience with all of them.”
A Bet Worth Making
One of the most meaningful parts of Lindsay and Nico’s day was having their best friend officiate the ceremony. “My friend and I made a bet. Neither of us remember what the bet was, but I wrote on a Post-it note that he could marry me. He kept that note in a lockbox for five years, and when we got engaged, he said, ‘By the way, I’m going to cash in on this,’” Lindsay shared.
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
It was his first time officiating, but his authenticity and genuine delivery made the ceremony unforgettable. “It was just so special to have someone who knew us so well – who’s had a front row seat in our entire relationship – marry us and make it such a memorable moment,” she said. Lindsay and Nico chose to exchange their vows privately in RGNY’s rose garden, to create a quiet moment for the two of them, and to keep the focus on their friend’s words during the ceremony.
The couple’s vendors also played a huge role in making the day extraordinary. Their DJ, Ello Entertainment, a BOLI Preferred Vendor and a longtime friend, tailored the music perfectly to their tastes. “He knew exactly what we would like, and threw in oldies and Latin music because Nico is Puerto Rican,” Lindsay said. “It appealed to everyone, but it still felt like our wedding and our music.”
Their photographer, Janelle Brooke Photography , a BOLI Preferred Vendor, was another standout. “She was out of this world — I have no words for how amazing she was to be with,” Lindsay recalled. “You spend so much of your day with your photographer, and her being so great really had such an impact.”
Trusting the Process
Lindsay credits the Brides of Long Island Facebook group as a helpful resource throughout her planning. “I always searched for vendors. And I read everything,” she said.
Looking back, she describes herself as a relaxed bride who trusted the process and enjoyed every moment. “Just relax — that’s my best piece of advice,” Lindsay shared. “Nothing is that serious. Everything is going to work out, and you’re going to have the best day ever. If you love your partner, your friends and your family, you’re surrounded by good people. I could have gotten married in a shoe box and it still would have been the best day.”
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
Vendors:
Venue: RGNY Vineyard
Photographer/Content Creator: Janelle Brooke Photography , a BOLI Preferred Vendor
DJ/Videography: Ello Entertainment, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Florist: Hometown Flower Company
Hair and Makeup: Beyond the Brush
Dessert/Cake/Food Truck: The Treatery
Tuxedos: Thomas Mitchel Clothiers
Transportation: Sir Oliver Limousine, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Day of Coordinator: Fab Day Events
Catering: Christopher Michael Catering
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
Whether it’s an energetic dance floor or a chill and intimate vibe, Absolute Entertainment drives your wedding day to match every expectation
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When you think of your ideal wedding reception, what do you picture? Is every guest out of their seat, dancing to a high energy soundtrack that shakes the walls? Or is everyone mingling with each other, enjoying cigars or photo booths with your favorite songs setting the mood?
Whatever your vision may be, the DJs and MCs at BOLI Preferred Vendor Absolute Entertainment are ready to bring your party to life. And with decades of experience (and 4 BOLI Diamond Awards) under their belt, they’re the masters at guiding your day to match your every expectation.
“You want to focus on things you really care about the most.” – Absolute Entertainment
With all the wedding inspo out there, how do you decide what’s best for you? “I think having a realistic expectation is one of the most important things to understand,” said Cenzo Kaufmann, General Manager and DJ with Absolute Entertainment. “If a couple has an expectation of a packed dance floor the entire time, there are a lot of different variables that can aid that vision as opposed to work against that vision.”
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“I find that many brides and grooms put so much pressure on themselves with all these different forms of entertainment because they want their wedding to be great,” he continued. “If your biggest priority is the dancing, then less is more sometimes. You want to focus on things that you really care about the most.”
“One of the things that I say to clients is, “stay with your vision,’” added Terrence Legrady, Sales Director and MC with Absolute. “If you have a clear, concise vision of what you want for your wedding, try not to defer from that as you see what everyone else is doing. Does it fit your vision for your wedding? If it doesn’t, do not buy it.”
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“Every single decision that is made for your reception falls on the shoulders of your entertainment.” – Absolute Entertainment
There’s no shortage of companies marketing themselves as wedding pros. How important is it to hire someone who’s been in the industry for a while? “I find a lot of people who are inexperienced tend to be what I call ‘yes-men,’” said Cenzo. “They’re focused on doing exactly what the bride and groom think they want, when realistically, this is their first wedding, and sometimes don’t know what they exactly want. They don’t know what makes the difference between a good wedding and a great wedding, and that is where an experienced entertainment company comes into play. We want every wedding to be fantastic, something that people are going to remember.”
“Half the time, I’ll have an idea that may enhance the couple’s vision for a particular moment, or how to assist in structuring a more efficient timeline that I’ll run past the bride and groom. At the end of the day it’s their wedding and we will do what they want, but I feel like I’m doing them an injustice if I don’t give them my best advice,” he continued. “It’s the difference between knowing how to guide and coach a couple through the big day versus just being the ‘yes’ man, and experience gives you that.”
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Terrence agreed. “Every single decision that is made for your reception falls on the shoulders of your entertainment,” he added. “That is why we need to interject sometimes and say ‘we’re happy to do whatever you’d like, but if you wouldn’t mind our educated option on this,’ and thankfully our brides and grooms say ‘we didn’t know that. Thank you for explaining it to us.’”
“Every bride and groom wants to celebrate differently.” – Absolute Entertainment
It may be tempting to match a trend you see on TikTok, or take the advice of your best friend that got married last year, but Terrence and Cenzo caution against those impulses. “The overwhelming majority of clients these days are going straight to social media for everything,” said Terrence. “Every bride and groom wants to celebrate differently, so you should be seeking your entertainment’s opinion on certain things that are going to enhance your overall experience.”
He gave a valuable example. “You may be seeking the advice from another bride who only had 10 people in her bridal party, whereas you have 20 people in your bridal party. Trust your entertainment company so you can really choose something that is specific to you and makes sense for your wedding.”
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“Using vendors that know the venue inside and out is paramount.” – Absolute Entertainment
Terrence and Cenzo also recommended sticking with a venue’s preferred vendor list. “Every venue operates a little bit differently,” Cenzo said. “Working with the recommended vendors just makes it a well-oiled machine as opposed to a situation where your maitre d’ wastes time babysitting your entertainers when that time can be better spent attending to you and your guests. Everything should be efficient, and working with recommended vendors really aids in that.”
“When we walk into a venue where we work all the time, the maitre d’ walks over and hugs us and the bride and groom see that,” Terrence added. “It’s basically an extension of our family, and they see how well we work together. I can literally finish the maitre d’s sentences and vice versa.”
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“There’s also certain variables from place to place, like having to manage two separate rooms,” he continued. “Or, numerous venues where we don’t have access to elevator service and we have to lug all of our equipment upstairs. If you’re a vendor who has never been to that particular venue and you haven’t allotted time to do that, you’re going to be late for someone’s biggest day of their lives. Using vendors that know the venue inside and out is paramount.”
“It’s all about keeping you immersed.” – Absolute Entertainment
To allow guest requests, or not to allow guest requests – it’s a common conundrum, and Absolute’s answer is nuanced. “It’s entirely up to the bride and groom,” Terrence said. “You’ve taken the time to curate a playlist with your entertainment, you trust that they’re experienced, and you trust that they have the ability to read your crowd. But If you’ve got great energy on the dance floor and it’s broken by a request, it takes a long time to get that energy back.”
“It’s our job to manage the psyches of hundreds of people, and there’s a science that goes into that,” Cenzo continued. “A set list is always done on the fly because you have to read the crowd and see what works. I’ve implemented a brutally honest ‘yes-no-maybe’ approach to requests. When a guest comes up and asks for a song, I’ll say either yes, it’s definitely going to come on at some point, no means don’t try asking again, and maybe means I’m going to try my best to squeeze it in.”
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If you want to allow requests from your guests, Terrence added an important caveat. “Do not ask your DJ to come over to the bride and groom and get their approval! The last thing you want is your MC running over to you throughout the evening asking you multiple questions that should not pertain to you. You should be in the moment with all of your friends and family, and you should not have to make a single decision on your wedding day. That should have been done during the communication and planning process.”
“It’s all about keeping you immersed,” Cenzo added.
Terrence, Cenzo, and the entire team at Absolute Entertainment want to wish you a very happy and healthy holiday season!
After the best day ever, these unique morning after brunch ideas will keep the excitement going.
Whether you’ve danced into the wee hours of the morning or your daytime wedding allowed you to get a good night’s sleep, you may want to keep that wedding excitement going. Here are seven unique ideas for your morning after brunch that will set your celebration apart from the rest.
Pajama Party Brunch
After a night celebrating, the thought of getting all dressed up again might be deterring. A fun pajama party morning after brunch allows guests to unwind in a cozy, casual setting. Encourage everyone to come in their pajamas or comfy clothes and set the scene with blankets and warm drinks. It creates a relaxed, intimate vibe where guests can share stories from the wedding day and enjoy a slower pace together.
Long Island Comfort Station
Give your brunch a local twist by spotlighting some Long Island classes. Think BEC (bacon, egg and cheese) from your favorite deli, crumb cake from a local bakery and, of course, baskets of fresh bagels with artisanal spreads. It’s not just delicious — it’s a way to share a piece of your home with guests, especially those traveling from out of town.
Mocktail & Wellness Bar
Not everyone wants to keep the bubbly flowing for a morning after brunch, and that’s okay! A wellness-inspired bar with fresh juices, infused waters and herbal teas offers a refreshing alternative. Pair it with light bites like fruit skewers or yogurt parfaits, and you’ll give guests the option to recharge while still feeling part of the celebration.
Acoustic Wake-Up Call
Instead of blasting a playlist, consider hiring a local musician to play soft acoustic tunes. Or find a great playlist on Spotify and sync up to a Bluetooth speaker. The gentle background music sets a welcoming atmosphere and encourages guests to linger over coffee and conversation. It’s a subtle but memorable touch that makes the morning after brunch feel like an experience rather than just a meal.
Looking for one of the best local musicians on Long Island? Check out BOLI’s Preferred Bands and Musicians!
Personalized “Recovery Kits”
A thoughtful detail that guests will rave about: mini gift bags at each seat filled with water bottles, snacks, sunglasses and maybe even a handwritten thank-you note from you and your partner. It’s practical, but it also shows how much you care about their comfort. Guests will leave feeling appreciated and loved.
Interactive Chef Experience
Elevate your brunch beyond the standard buffet by bringing in a chef to prepare dishes right in front of your guests. Whether it’s made-to-order omelets, delicate crepes or waffles piled high with toppings, the interactive element makes the meal feel special and personal. Guests will love choosing their own ingredients and watching them come to life — it’s part dining, part entertainment and a memorable way to keep the celebration going.
One of BOLI’s Preferred Caterers can bring your interactive chef experience to life.
Farewell Toast & Sweet Send-Off
As your wedding weekend winds down, a farewell toast is the perfect way to close the chapter with love and gratitude. Gather your guests during brunch and share a few heartfelt words about what their presence has meant to you. Pair the toast with a signature “morning after” cocktail or pastry that reflects your story, like your favorite diner-style mimosa or a family recipe passed down through generations. It’s a simple gesture that leaves everyone with full hearts and a lasting memory of your celebration.
Your morning after brunch doesn’t have to be just another meal — it can be the perfect encore to your wedding day. Whether you’re serving up local Long Island comfort foods, creating cozy spaces for guests to relax or sending them off with a heartfelt toast, these thoughtful touches show your appreciation and keep the celebration spirit alive. By blending unique experiences with genuine gratitude, you’ll give your loved ones one last joyful memory to carry home — and ensure your wedding weekend ends just as beautifully as it began.
This article sponsored by Port Jefferson Country Club, a Brides of Long Island Preferred Venue!
Need self-care before the big day? Check out these places to go for bridal beauty prep in Suffolk County
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Wedding planing can be fun, but it can also be stressful. Managing family dynamics. facing endless choices, and hounding people for their RSVPs can take their toll. There’s never been a better time for a little self-care than now!
If you’re in Eastern Long Island (or you don’t mind a bit of a drive), check out one of these 7 places for bridal beauty prep in Suffolk County.
Botox Beauty Bar
Sayville
Founded by Nurse Practitioner Jeanna Masone, Botox Beauty Bar wants brides (and their family members!) to look and feel their best for their big day. Their mission is to make Medical aesthetics more friendly, dynamic, and personable.
Lash Therapy West
Islip
Although they have “lash” in their name, Lash Therapy West goes way beyond that. They also offer skin, brow, and makeup services, and can help you prepare for your big day in whatever way you choose!
Water2Moon Spray Tan Boutique
Setauket-East Setauket
Water2Moon prides themselves in being a place that provides more than just a spray tan. Their airbrush tans are all customized for your individual skin tone and applied by hand by one of their certified artists.
Beauty Bomb Aesthetics
Smithtown
Take this as your official warning: the Beauty Bomb Squad may show up to your wedding, because that’s how much they love all of their brides! They’re known for cutting edge treatments like injectables, RF microneedling, lasers, skin rejuvenation, non-surgical procedures, transformative medical grade skincare and wellness medicine.
VIO Med Spa
Patchogue
VIO Med Spa is your go-to partner for getting that radiant, confident glow as you walk down the aisle. From rejuvenating facials and body-sculpting treatments to wellness services that help you feel your best inside and out, they’ll help you shine with confidence.
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OrangeTheory Fitness
Patchogue, Port Jefferson, Stony Brook, Wading River, Comack, Smithtown, Sayville
OTF is all about helping you crush your goals. Whether you’re looking to tone, build strength, or just release some pre-wedding jitters, they’ve got your back with group fitness that’s both fun and challenging.
Mane and Medi
Port Jefferson
The Mane and Medi team is made up of skilled beauty practitioners and registered nurses who specialize in full facial balancing, hair restoration, and inner wellness to help brides look and feel their absolute best. Whether it’s prepping for the big day or recovering after the celebrations, we’re here to elevate the bridal experience with beauty and wellness that lasts.
Stay ahead of the crowds with these trends for 2026 weddings.
Let’s face it, figuring out what’s “in” for weddings can feel overwhelming. Are traditions like the bouquet or garter toss still popular? Is the photo booth still a must-have? While the most important thing is creating a day that reflects you and your partner, there are fresh ideas shaping the wedding scene. Here are some top trends for 2026 weddings that you could consider for your special day.
Intimate Ceremony
Couples in 2026 are embracing the beauty of simplicity. Some couples may be introverted, and some want to focus on each other. Either way, a top trend for 2026 weddings seems to be more intimate ceremonies. This could mean exchanging vows with a handful of family and friends, whispering promises without a microphone or even saying “I do” at the courthouse before celebrating later with a larger reception. The emphasis is on authenticity and connection, not spectacle.
Antique Décor
Inspired by the romantic world of “Bridgerton,” vintage elegance is making its way into wedding design. Couples are choosing bold antique furniture, ornate mirrors and period-inspired details to create a timeless atmosphere. Think draped curtains, flowy fabrics, and candlelit spaces that feel like stepping into a historical romance novel. The result is a wedding that feels both regal and deeply personal.
Throwback Style
Wedding fashion in 2026 is embracing nostalgia. Brides are gravitating toward gowns inspired by past decades — think 90s slip dresses, 70s bohemian lace or even structured silhouettes reminiscent of the 1950s. Vintage-inspired veils, gloves and pearl details are making a comeback, offering a timeless elegance with a modern twist. The trend is all about honoring classic styles while reinterpreting them for today’s bride, creating looks that feel both familiar and fresh.
Accentuated Personalization
Personalization has always been important, but in 2026 it’s being taken to new heights. Couples are weaving their stories into every detail — from custom monograms on dance floors to signature cocktails named after their pets. Guest experiences are tailored too, with handwritten notes at place settings or playlists curated to reflect shared memories. The trend is about making weddings unmistakably “yours,” down to the smallest touch.
Dramatic Florals
Florals – and colors — are going bold. Oversized arrangements, cascading installations and unexpected color palettes are stealing the spotlight. Couples are experimenting with immersive floral tunnels, ceiling-hung blossoms and even floral chandeliers to transform venues into lush, dreamlike gardens. Sustainability also plays a role, with locally sourced blooms and repurposed arrangements ensuring beauty without waste.
Unique Entertainment
Gone are the days when a DJ or band was the only option. In 2026, couples are surprising guests with interactive entertainment — think live artists painting the ceremony, tarot card readers, aerial performers, string quartets or silent discos. The goal is to create unforgettable moments that reflect the couple’s personality while keeping guests engaged long after the cake is cut.
Foodie Heaven
Food is no longer just a formality, it’s a centerpiece. Couples are curating menus that reflect their culinary passions, from chef-led tasting experiences to late-night food truck surprises. Global flavors, plant-based options and interactive stations (like DIY sushi rolls or gourmet s’mores) are redefining wedding dining. Dessert spreads are equally elevated, with artisanal gelato carts, edible flower cakes and cocktail-paired sweets.
There also seems to be a generational shift from traditional formats to more unique, innovative celebrations. Gen Z couples often skip the traditional format — cocktail hour, grand entrance, dinner, cake cutting — in favor of laid-back, lounge-style receptions that prioritize mingling and flexibility over rigid schedules. Millennials, meanwhile, tend to embrace tradition but infuse it with deeply personal touches that make their day feel distinctive.
Whatever you decide, remember, it’s your wedding – and your story. Trends can spark inspiration, but sometimes a thoughtful “throwback” detail is exactly what makes your celebration unforgettable. The best weddings aren’t about following rules; they’re about creating the day that feels most like you.
For better or for worse, alcohol is a part of most celebrations. Here’s how to drink responsibly at a wedding.
From signature cocktails to champagne toasts and morning-after mimosas, alcoholic beverages are intwined into most weddings. And with an open bar at your disposal, it can be dangerously easy to throw caution to the wind and lose track of how much you’ve consumed.
But trust us — you don’t want to be the subject of gossip at brunch the next day. Before you head into that reception hall, you may want to think about how to drink responsibly at a wedding.
Know your limits
Some people can drink a glass of wine or two and be fine, and some need to abstain from alcohol completely. Everyone has a slightly different relationship to alcohol, and it’s important that you know yours.
Remember — not all drinks are created equal. A Long Island Iced Tea has more alcohol in it than a beer, so your “three drink limit” may need some adjustments based off of what you’re drinking.
Don’t skip the food
Let’s be honest, this shouldn’t be hard to do. There is so much delicious food at a wedding, and most of the time you leave pretty stuffed. Having food in your stomach slows the rate at which alcohol is absorbed into your system. So pack that plate at cocktail hour!
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Refill your water glass
Staying hydrated is super important, even if you’re not drinking any alcohol (you can really work up a sweat on the dance floor!) A good rule of thumb is to drink one glass of water for every alcoholic beverage that you consume.
Have an “accountabili-buddy”
If you’re worried about the night getting out of hand, enlist a friend to help keep you accountable. They can give you a friendly tap when you’re getting ready to order “just one more,” and they can let you know that you’re doing that “thing” you do after too many White Claws that everyone else finds…well…a little annoying.
Pace yourself
Before you refill your champagne glass in the bridal suite, remember — you’ve got an entire day ahead of you. You don’t want to be already hungover before the bridal party makes their entrance, so slow down your consumption early in the day.
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Know what you’re drinking
That signature cocktail looks amazing, but you and tequila have a long history. Before ordering, have an idea of what you’re getting ready to drink. Some cocktails have way more alcohol in them than you think they do, and certain liquors have higher alcohol content than others.
That goes for beer and wine, too! When in doubt, pull out your phone and look up your beverages ABV (alcohol by volume). The higher the percentage, the more alcohol in the drink.
Have a ride home ready
This goes without saying, but always have transportation worked out for the end of the night. If you’re driving yourself and others, it’s vitally important that you’re sober before getting behind the wheel. Knowing that you’re driving should strongly dictate how much you’re going to be drinking during the evening (spoiler alert: it should be minimal).
Even if you’ve got a ride home, keep your drinking in moderation. You’ll be so happy you did when you wake up bright-eyed the next morning!
If your drinking feels out of control, contact a mental health professional.
Emily and Tracy work to ensure you can include your fur babies on your big day.
Have you ever wanted to include your pets on your wedding day, but weren’t sure about the logistics? Look no further than BOLI Preferred Vendor Love & Leashes. Owners Emily and Tracy will not only bring your furry friends to your venue, they will stay by their side to make sure they’re taken care of – before, during and after you say ‘I do.’
Boarding and Beyond
What started as private in-home boarding a few years ago has turned into so much more for Emily and Tracy. “Before I met Tracy, I was boarding dogs while people would go on vacation,” said Emily. “When one of my regulars asked me to bring her dog to her wedding, I saw the opportunity to expand.” About two years ago, Love & Leashes was born when Emily and Tracy teamed up.
For weddings, they provide everything from transportation to hands-on companionship throughout the day. “We ensure dogs are leashed, well-behaved and cared for so couples can focus on celebrating,” said Emily. They arrive fully prepared — like photographers with their gear — bringing essentials such as poop bags, cooling mats, blankets, towels, lint rollers and even the dog’s favorite treats or toys to keep them happy and engaged during photos.
“The most common request we hear is, ‘Can you make sure my dog doesn’t jump on my dress?’” said Tracy. “Couples want peace of mind, and that’s exactly what we provide.” The pair will walk dogs down the aisle, help with photos and coordinate with planners and photographers so everything runs smoothly. “Whether it’s a short appearance or an eight-hour wedding, we’re there to make sure every moment with their pet is joyful and stress-free,” said Tracy.
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Part of the Family
But what if your fur baby gets anxious or isn’t great around strangers? Emily and Tracy assure brides that the dogs they care for are treated like their own. “Our philosophy of boarding is folding dogs right into our family,” said Tracy. “We both have large fenced-in yards, plenty of space to play and if they’d rather curl up on the couch and watch NatGeo or football, they get to do that too. We want them to feel loved and treated just as our own pets are.” Emily added, “Before any stay — whether it’s for a wedding or regular boarding — we always do a meet and greet. Couples bring their pup to see our home, meet our families and get comfortable with our own dogs so everything feels smooth and safe.” The pair say they don’t use crates, unless that is what the dogs are used to. Basically, they want your dogs to live exactly how they live at home. And while they have only taken care of dogs during weddings, they are definitely open to any other pets couples have.
Training for the Big Day
That extra care extends to wedding prep, especially for pups who may be nervous. “Because the dogs know us, they trust us and they feel our energy,” said Tracy. “We’re their advocates, making sure they’re calm, comfortable and never put in situations that could make them anxious. If a dog is timid, we’ll take them for an extra walk or give them space away from the crowd.” Emily recalled one special success story: Bailey. “She had a long history of anxiety, but her owners really wanted her in their wedding,” she said. “Over 10 months, she came to my house once a month — starting with short visits and building up to sleepovers — so she could get used to us.” By the time the wedding came, Bailey pranced down the aisle like she was the star of the show. “That transformation was incredible,” said Emily.
Favorite Moments With Your Fur Baby
For Emily and Tracy, the joy of their work comes from witnessing the sweetest, most genuine moments between couples and their pets. “The first look with mom is one of my favorites,” said Emily. “A lot of times dogs will board with us the night before, so they haven’t seen their parents for a day or two. The excitement of their little butt wiggles and wagging tails when they see their mom is just so sweet.”
Tracy shared that her favorite memories happen when dogs realize they’re surrounded by familiar faces. “The greeting before walking into a ceremony or cocktail hour is just adorable. All of a sudden, the dog is like, ‘wait, I know all these people, and they know me.’ It’s the most heartwarming thing,” she said. Tracy also treasures the quieter moments, like when a pup pauses before walking down the aisle. “It’s that instant where the dog looks at their mom or dad, and we capture it behind the scenes.” And they want couples to know that they won’t go anywhere until you get all the moments you want. They will advocate for you so your vision truly comes to life.
A Trusted Part of Your Day
What makes Love & Leashes so special isn’t just the care they provide—it’s the joy they get from being part of the celebration itself. “We get to listen to incredible ceremonies,” said Tracy. “It’s such an honor to witness weddings over and over again, each one so different. What’s amazing is how often dogs are included in so many aspects. These dogs are so loved, and it feels really special to be trusted with someone’s most precious baby on their wedding day.”
They can be a delight, but they can also be unpredictable. Should you have dogs at your wedding?
They’re cute, they’re cuddly, and they can bring out the “awws” from all around. Our dogs are more than just furry friends — they’re cherished members of our family.
When it comes to your wedding though, including your fur fam in on the action can get a little complicated. You’d much rather invite them than your Great Uncle Bob, but at least there’s no chance that Great Uncle Bob will start barking during your vows or…umm..”relieving himself” in the aisle (not before the open bar, anyway).
Dogs can be unpredictable, uncontrollable, and cause some unwanted chaos on a day that’s already pretty chaotic. Should you chance it and have them be a part of the festivities, or should you just pop their face on a cocktail napkin and leave it at that? Here are a few pros and cons to dogs at your wedding.
Pro: They’re adorable
Yes, your dog is the cutest. We definitely agree with you, and so do all of your friends and family. Getting them in a fancy outfit and crowning them ring bearer or flower girl will get your guests buzzing and create an unforgettable moment in your big day.
Plus, a little fido snuggle in the bridal suite is best way to calm your pre-ceremony jitters.
Con: They’re unpredictable
Listen, there’s reason you have a “please don’t ring the doorbell” sign on your front door. Dogs can be very unpredictable, and certain sounds, smells, or sights could set them off. A wedding could be a very stressful environment for them, and their reactions or behavior could stress you out in turn.
The solution? Pet attendants like BOLI Preferred Vendor and 2025 Diamond Award Winner Love and Leashes! They can be your pet’s “plus one” for the day, caring for them during all of the moments that matter.
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Pro: They’ll make your pictures unique and special
You’ve got the rest of your family on your shot list — mom, dad, grandma, there’s Great Uncle Bob again — why WOULDN’T you include your pup? Having your dogs in your wedding day pictures can make them that much more special, and fully symbolize your WHOLE family.
Con: It may take more time to get the shots
Remember when we said they’re “unpredictable?” That could throw a wrench in your timeline. Getting them to sit still, look at the camera, chasing after them when they’ve gotten distracted — it can all add valuable minutes onto your photo time, which could put you behind schedule.
Love and Leashes can come to the rescue here, too! They can keep your pup calm, cool, and collected before their photo op. And once the cameras are off and it’s time to party, Love and Leashes can board your pets until they’re ready to be picked up.
Pro: They can be a wedding witness
Yes! New York State allows your best fur bud to be a witness at your wedding. Put some ink on your pooch’s paw and have them sign your wedding certificate!
Con: You’ll still need a human witness
According to the New York State Department of Health, you’ll need at least one witness that would be “competent to testify in a court preceding as to what he or she witnessed.” So unless your dog has the capacity for language, you’ll still need a human witness too. But hey, the more the merrier!
In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Samantha talks about how her love of antiquing inspired the perfect touches for her wedding day.
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
While Samantha and JJ may have had a typical online meeting, their relationship took an unconventional turn quickly. This cross-country pair settled on Long Island and planned the perfect romantic winter wedding day earlier this year.
A Cross-Country Adventure
Samantha and JJ’s romance began in December 2016 when she joined Bumble with a friend on a whim. The pair hit it off, but when Samantha learned JJ was just visiting Long Island and he actually lived in Los Angeles, she told him she just wanted to remain friends. JJ’s persistence and charm won her over, however. “After a month of talking, he invited me on a trip with his friends to New Orleans,” she said. “I was in my early 20s, and I had vowed that 2017 would be my ‘yes’ year. So I went, and we had a blast.” They spent a year navigating a long-distance relationship, flying back and forth between coasts before JJ moved back to Long Island.
By March 2023, Samantha and JJ were ready to take the next step. “We had talked about how I wanted something simple when he proposed,” she explains. JJ proposed on Walker Beach in Bay Shore, a quiet local spot close to the Lake House, where their families were gathered for dinner. “He was so nervous,” she said, laughing. “I sort of knew he was going to propose, as he never wants to take random walks. And we had never been to this beach before.” The celebration continued the next day at their home, where a planned baseball kickoff party for JJ’s birthday doubled as an engagement party with all their friends.
Finding the Perfect Venue
When it came to planning, Samantha and JJ took a thoughtful approach. They spent a month discussing finances, guest lists and priorities before diving into venue searches. For Samantha, the venue was the most important piece. “I wanted a romantic vintage vibe and a team that could bring that vision to life,” she explained. For JJ, the focus was on music and making sure guests had an unforgettable time on the dance floor. Together, they agreed that the venue, food, DJ and photography were their top priorities, setting the foundation for a celebration that felt both seamless and joyful.
Their search led them to tour 13 venues in just a month, but the decision ultimately came by chance. “We were actually set on another venue, when my mom reminded me that we had an appointment at the Mansion at Oyster Bay, [a BOLI Preferred Venue],” Samantha said. “When I walked through the doors, I knew it was the one. It had the exact vibe I was looking for.” Within two hours, she and JJ signed with the venue, and it did not disappoint. From the maitre d’ to the bridal attendant, the staff exceeded every expectation and made the couple feel supported on their wedding day.
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
Creating that Vintage Vibe
For Samantha, creating a romantic vintage vibe was at the heart of her wedding design. A lifelong lover of antiques, she leaned into warm winter tones—mauves, purples, and creams—and dressed her bridesmaids in velvet to heighten the cozy, romantic feel. She scoured estate sales and Facebook Marketplace for brass candelabras and unique centerpieces. One of her favorite details was a refurbished vintage phone chair she found online, which became the perfect setting for their phone guest book. “I actually donated it to the Mansion afterward so future brides could enjoy it,” she said. Other subtle touches included custom matchbooks at the bar, drink stirrers and a crest on the invitations—all designed to enhance the atmosphere without overwhelming it. The Mansion at Oyster Bay’s timeless elegance provided the perfect backdrop, making it easy to execute Samantha’s vision of a wedding that felt personal, romantic and beautifully vintage.
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
A Moment of Calm
Samantha and JJ exchanged vows at St. Joseph’s in Babylon, the church where both her grandparents and parents had been married. The pair waited to have their first look when Samantha walked down the aisle. After the ceremony and photos, the newlyweds were ready for their moment of quiet in their bridal suite – enjoying the delicious cocktail hour food the staff had put out for them. “That moment was so important,” Samantha recalled. “We finally sat alone, looked at each other, and said, ‘We’re married.’ Hearing the laughter outside while having that private pause was bliss. All the work was done, and now we could just enjoy ourselves and celebrate with our loved ones.”
Obviously, Samantha and JJ were thrilled with all of their vendors, but two stood out as truly exceptional. BOLI Preferred Vendor High Voltage, led by Anthony—who Samantha had first worked with at her sweet 16—kept the dance floor packed all night. From seamless communication to thoughtful extras like signage, guest book setup and even a surprise upgrade to their reception design, Anthony and his team went above and beyond. “Guests still rave about the playlist,” she said.
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
Equally memorable was Kaela from Tower Flowers Nesconset, who brought Samantha’s romantic vintage vision to life with honesty and artistry. Kaela embraced her ideas, incorporating the candelabras into lush floral arrangements and creating everything from the boutonnieres to centerpieces with care. “She just listened,” Samantha said, noting that the results were perfect.
Stay True to Yourself
Throughout her planning, Samantha leaned on Brides of Long Island as both a resource and a community. She looked for reviews to prepare herself for vendor meetings, and she asked questions that brought in dozens of helpful responses—from makeup recommendations for her bridal shower to ideas for her bachelorette theme. “Once you’re in it, you realize you don’t know how you survived without it,” she said, noting how invaluable the group became throughout the entire process.
Now, as a bride looking back, Samantha encourages others to stay true to themselves. “Take advice, but at the end of the day, do what you want for your wedding,” she shared. “Trends and social media can be overwhelming, but the most important part is marrying your person in a way that feels authentic.” For Samantha, that meant a romantic vintage celebration filled with candlelight and subtle personal touches. Her advice: do your research, trust your instincts and make decisions that reflect your vision—you’ll never regret creating a day that’s uniquely yours.
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
Vendors:
Venue: The Mansion at Oyster Bay, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Photo/Video: Solaris Photo & Film, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
DJ: High Voltage, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Florist: Towers Flowers Nesconset
Hair: Emilie Does My Hair
Makeup: Makeup by Marisa
Dress: Ivory & Main, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Cake: Batter Up
Tuxedos: The Black Tux
Transportation: All Star Limo, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Piano Player: Inspire with Strings
Cigar Bar: Village Cigar Headquarters in Patchogue, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Day of coordinators: Meaghan & Katie of Three Sisters II Events
Dog sitter: Tracy of Love & Leashes, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
(Photo by Solaris Photo & Film)
Looking to keep the party going after your wedding? These ideas will entertain your guests.
We spend so much time planning our wedding, so of course you might want to continue partying after the reception is officially over.
A lot of venues offer after party options. You could always head back to your hotel bar to unwind, or you could plan one of these eight unique ideas for your after party.
Bowling
Trade those wedding shoes for some bowling shoes at your local alley. Keep your wedding dress and tuxedo on for some fun photos! Split up into teams to enjoy a little friendly competition. And don’t forget to order some bar food and pitchers of beer.
Karaoke
You’ve spent all night dancing and listening to your DJ. Why not take the mic yourself for your after party? Check out bars to see if they offer karaoke, or get an inexpensive karaoke machine and bring it to wherever you head after.
Pool Party
This can work anywhere. Some hotels allow parties in their pool area, or you could enjoy a friend’s pool. You may even have your own! Either way, this is a great way to relax and chill after a long day.
Laser Tag
Up for some friendly competition to unwind after your wedding? Head to a laser tag joint. This is another fun idea that could make for some great photos in your wedding attire!
Escape Room
Reserve a few rooms for a fun challenge after your wedding.
Movie Night
Some theaters allow you to rent the full theater for all of your guests. Or if you want to keep it low-key, see if you could host it at your venue, hotel or even at your house. Don’t forget the popcorn!
Bonfire
Depending on where your venue is, you could head to a beach or park that allows bonfires. Or see if your hotel or venue has a firepit you could use.
Scavenger Hunt
Hand out the item list to your guests when they leave, and pick a location to meet up at after. The guest who has the most items on the list gets a free drink on the bride and groom!
The sky is the limit when it comes to after party ideas on your wedding day. You can keep it chill or party all night until closing time. Whatever you decide, remember to enjoy yourself. Take a moment to absorb the love from your friends and family who kept the celebration going!