There’s more that goes into hiring a wedding makeup artist than you may think.
Image courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty LLC
You’ve followed your favorites on Instagram, scrolled through BOLI Preferred Vendor profiles at length, and have read hundreds of reviews in the brides-only Facebook group. Your search for a wedding makeup artist has officially begun…and you’re already overwhelmed.
We get it. Putting together your dream vendor team is quite the undertaking. In Brides of Long Island’s latest series, we explain how to prepare for hiring each of your vendors — from photographers to florists and everything in between.
BOLI tapped two of our Preferred Vendors — Beauté Plans by A + C and Cristina Ashley Beauty LLC — for their thoughts on what to expect when hiring a wedding makeup artist. Here’s what they said.
Image courtesy of Beauté Plans by A+C
Book with a deposit — not an email
When you find the makeup artist you want to work with, know that you’ll be expected to sign on the dotted line.
“Many brides don’t realize that a date isn’t officially reserved until a deposit is paid and a contract is signed,” said Victoria with Beauté Plans by A + C. “Inquiry emails do not hold your date.”
So after you’ve discovered “the one,” don’t hesitate to get your contracts and deposits squared away quickly. Dates can book up fast, especially in busier months.
A good artists is more than their pictures
Cristina with Cristina Ashley Beauty LLC recommends that you consider lots of different factors when looking for an artist — not just their Instagram posts.
“It’s important to look beyond a portfolio of beautiful photos,” she said. “Ask about sanitation practices, experience with different skin tones and skin types, longevity techniques, professionalism, communication, and whether the artist has a reliable timeline for wedding mornings. A calm, organized artist can make a significant difference in creating a relaxed getting ready experience.”
Image courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty LLC
Trials are key
Both Victoria and Cristina stressed the importance of your makeup trial.
“We highly recommend scheduling your makeup trial as early as possible, especially during peak wedding season. Popular artists book up quickly, and having your trial done early ensures you secure your date and have peace of mind,” said Victoria.
“A bridal trial is much more than a makeup appointment,” added Cristina. “It’s an opportunity to build trust with your artist, discuss your vision, evaluate how products wear throughout the day, and make any adjustments well before the wedding. Brides should come prepared with inspiration photos, but also remain open to professional recommendations based on their skin type, features, wedding style, and the season. There are a lot of details that go into prepping them for their special day. “
Photos help, but manage your expectations
On the subject of inspiration photos, both Victoria and Cristina advised brides to stay realistic when it comes to their wedding day look.
“Bringing inspiration photos to your trial is incredibly helpful, but it’s important to remember that lighting, skin tone, and photo editing play a big role,” said Victoria. “Your artist will work with you to customize a look that enhances your natural, unique features. we always recommend having photos that look like YOU, with similar coloring.”
Cristina agreed. “One of the most important things brides should know is that your makeup artist should be someone who enhances your natural beauty while making you feel like the best version of yourself, not someone who changes your appearance,” she said. “On your wedding day, you should still look like you, just elevated, confident, and camera ready.”
Image courtesy of Beauté Plans by A + C
Healthy skin is in
Your skin will play a major factor in your overall bridal look, so if you aren’t already, start taking care of that gorgeous face!
“Your makeup will only look as good as the skin underneath,” said Victoria. “Starting a consistent skincare routine months before your wedding day makes a massive difference in how your makeup applies and wears throughout the day.”
“Skincare leading up to the wedding is just as important as the makeup itself,” Cristina echoed. “Healthy, well-hydrated skin creates the best canvas for long lasting, flawless makeup. Your artist should be willing to provide skincare guidance before the big day so your makeup performs at its best.”
It’s usually the first step of your wedding planning process, and it sets the tone for your entire day. Here’s how to find a Long Island wedding venue.
Image by JoVon Photography, courtesy of The Crescent Beach Club
Your venue is such a major wedding decision. Not only will your venue provide the setting and mood for your day, but venue staff will ensure that every detail is carried out to your preferences.
There’s certainly no shortage of amazing Long Island wedding venues, so starting your search may be a little intimidating. Here are the best ways to find the perfect venue for the kind of wedding you want.
Photo by Angel Project Studios, courtesy of The Lannin
Decide on your vibe
No two wedding venues are alike. Some have a refined and elegant feel, and some have cozy and rustic charm. The right venue for you will depend on the overall theme of your wedding. If you envision a black tie affair, some of our area’s Gold Coast mansions may be the perfect setting. If your vibe is more “heightened casual,” a barn or waterfront venue may be calling your name.
Keep in mind that some venues can even fully transform based on what you have in mind. With a little imagination and ingenuity, you can turn Madsion Square Garden into a castle (just ask Taylor).
Search BOLI’s Preferred Venues
Once you’ve decided on your theme, browse through Brides of Long Island’s amazing Preferred Venues!
The venues on our list have been the setting for thousands of weddings within the BOLI community. These are the places and the people that truly deliver when it’s time to say “I do.” From immaculate grounds to professional staff and amazing food, BOLI’s Preferred Venues are vetted by real brides, reviewed by our staff before acceptance on our roster, and continue a legacy of excellence as each year passes. You won’t go wrong with any of BOLI’s Preferred Venues!
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Read reviews in the BOLI Facebook group
The Brides of Long Island brides-only Facebook group is one of the best resources you can find for inspiration, ideas, and real feedback. Once a bride “graduates,” we welcome any and all reviews from their day — those reviews are what help future brides in the group find their dream vendor teams.
Scroll through the feed to find recent reviews, or use the search bar to read reviews on a few specific venues you have in mind. They can help you narrow down your choices, give you feedback on things to look out for, and even inspire a few decor choices.
Attend bridal and event expos at a few favorite venues
Once you’ve narrowed down a few venue choices, check to see if any are hosting bridal or event expos in the coming months. Many will host expos twice a year, and some more frequently. This will give you an opportunity to see the space, try the food, and see how other vendors operate within the venue. Who knows, you may even book your photographer or florist at the same time!
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Ask friends and family
Recommendations from friends and family are like gold! You may have even attended one of their recent weddings and had an absolute blast. If that’s the case, don’t be shy — ask your newly-married pal for more information about their venue.
Remember though, your weddings may be drastically different. You loved your cousin’s small ceremony and reception at a waterfront venue, but do you think it would be the right place for your 250+ guest list?
Use AI or search engines
We don’t love this option for two big reasons: One, AI is wrong (a lot) and two, anyone can write a good review (or a bad one). There are just too many unknowns and variables when it comes to these venue-shopping options. Venues that show up at the top of the list may not be the “best” ones, but the ones who’ve paid the most money for a higher ranking on Google.
But if all else fails, a quick ask on a search engine or AI prompt can return a few viable options to tour. Just be sure to do your due diligence.
Saying “I do” on Long Island? Check out the our favorite Suffolk County wedding venues!
(Photo courtesy of Sunset Harbour)
From the Queens border to the East End, there are so many beautiful Long Island wedding venues. Each one has something unique that is perfect for all brides on their big day. From large catering halls to smaller intimate restaurants, how do you choose? Well, you start by figuring out where on Long Island you want to say “I do.”
Whether you’re from eastern Long Island or are just looking for a great venue that fits your vibe, these Suffolk County wedding venues are sure to fit your needs. If you’re looking to say your vows on the beach in Montauk or in a vineyard on the North Fork, here are some of BOLI’s favorite wedding venues in Suffolk County.
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Sunset Harbor
East Patchogue
Located in its own marina tucked away along the Great South Bay, Sunset Harbour has been family owned and operated for the past 25 years. The marina offers stunning views of the water and makes for great sunset photos. It can accommodate up to 250 guests.
(Photo courtesy of Swan Lake Caterers)
Swan Lake Caterers
Manorville
This recently renovated boutique-style venue is located on the greens of Swan Lake Golf Course. It features a rustic indoor look with wine barrels, barn doors and lanterns.
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The Old Field Club
East Setauket
The Old Field Club offers waterfront views along the North Shore with rustic yet elegant charm. This intimate venue can accommodate up to 180 guests.
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The Meadow Club
Port Jefferson Station
This recently renovated property boasts crystal chandeliers and perfectly manicured gardens. The Meadow Club hosts one wedding at a time, and offers various packages that fit every budget and wedding party size.
The Piermont
Babylon
Nestled on the Great South Bay, this waterfront venue features floor-to-ceiling windows so your guests can enjoy beautiful sunsets and amazing water views. Couples can choose between indoor or outdoor ceremonies, and their menus feature locally sourced products along with American classics.
Watermill Caterers
Smithtown
Located in the heart of Suffolk County, this hidden gem features a sprawling estate, manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. Your wedding will have old-world charm with luxurious modern comforts. Watermill Caterers can accommodate up to 350 guests.
Insignia
Smithtown
This steakhouse turned wedding venue can accommodate up to 300 guests. Insignia offers indoor and outdoor spaces for a ceremony, combining the feel of a Hamptons-style mansion with an upscale Manhattan restaurant. Menus range from prime-age steaks to fresh seafood and sushi.
360 East at Montauk Downs
Montauk
Head to “The End” to celebrate your wedding day. 360 East at Montauk Downs combines the charm of a beach town with an elegant setting, featuring stunning views of Montauk (yes, including the famous Montauk Lighthouse!). This venue can accommodate up to 200 guests.
The Vineyards at Aquebogue
Aquebogue
The Vineyards has a rustic, farmhouse feel with enchanting gardens and authentic vineyards. With a guest capacity of 300, this venue can host your indoor or outdoor ceremony and reception. The Vineyards offers a variety of enhancement packages, as well as all-inclusive packages for Saturday or Sunday day weddings.
Chateau at Coindre Hall
Huntington
With the Huntington Harbor as a backdrop, this mansion is both timeless and historic. Couples can exchange vows in the garden or the ballroom. The photo opportunities are endless with a courtyard, vine-covered columns, a spiral staircase and six fireplaces. Coindre Hall can hold up to 200 guests for a night full of historic and elegant memories.
Essex Club
Brentwood
This quaint country club is set among 50 acres of rolling greens and picturesque perennials. Have your ceremony in the outside gazebo or in front of a roaring fireplace. Then dance the night away with up to 250 guests in the grand ballroom.
Stonebridge Country Club
Smithtown
This modern-day country club overlooks a lush, green golf course and woodlands, offering plenty of photo opportunities. Stonebridge can accommodate up to 350 guests. It has an outdoor gazebo for ceremonies, and a couple options for cocktail hour.
Bourne Mansion
Oakdale
This historic Vanderbilt Museum is located on the Great South Bay with breathtaking views, both inside and out. The mansion features 40-foot vaulted ceilings, an elegant wooden staircase and a grand ballroom. It can hold up to 300 of your guests.
Estate at Three Village Inn
Stony Brook
Located in the heart of the historic town and overlooking Stony Brook Harbor, the Estate at Three Village Inn is a unique backdrop for your wedding day. Make it a full wedding weekend with your rehearsal dinner at their Mirabelle restaurant, stay overnight in their cozy rooms or suites, and then say your vows in the garden before enjoying your reception in their ballroom, able to fit up to 250 guests.
Mansion at Timber Point
Great River
The Mansion at Timber Point is nestled along the Great South Bay, offering views of Fire Island and the rolling greens of a golf course. Inside the historic mansion offers classic country décor with a modern twist for you and your up to 250 guests.
The Mansion at West Sayville
West Sayville
The Mansion at West Sayville offers classic splendor with rustic beach charm. It features views of the Great South Bay, Fire Island and the Maritime Museum. The grand ballroom features French doors to separate the dance floor from the dining room. A perfect setting for up to 220 guests.
Pavilion at Sunken Meadow
Kings Park
The Pavilion at Sunken Meadow is the premier location for the perfect beach wedding. It offers stretches of sand, gentle bay breezes and beautiful sunset views. It can accommodate up to 300 guests.
View
Oakdale
View offers a refined yet relaxing setting with beautiful waterfront views and award-winning food. Host your intimate wedding with up to 180 guests at the View for a customized menu and breathtaking landscapes.
East Wind Long Island
Wading River
East Wind features 26 acres on the Island’s North Shore giving brides plenty of opportunities for amazingly beautiful photos. Not only does it give you several options for your wedding – everything from an intimate garden affair to a stately ballroom – it also is home to a hotel, several restaurants, shops and a full-service spa and salon.
Giorgio’s Baiting Hollow
Baiting Hollow
Every wedding at Giorgio’s is personally overseen by the owners to make sure your perfect day goes smoothly. This venue is unique in its indoor and outdoor setting, with scenic views of a beautiful, rolling golf course. And who wouldn’t love a nine-station cocktail hour and a four-course entrée dinner? Giorgio’s fits up to 300 guests.
Atlantis Banquets & Events
Riverhead
When you hear Atlantis, you probably think “aquarium,” but why not get married there? From a small gathering of 20 guests to a roaring party of 650, you’ll get to choose from up to nine different locations around the property. And don’t forget to take photos with the animals!
Bellport Country Club
Bellport
This one-wedding venue is located in the village of Bellport and offers views of the championship golf course and Great South Bay. It features an indoor-outdoor cocktail hour, and a beautiful private garden for the perfect ceremony. Customize your dream wedding at Bellport Country Club.
Villa Lombardi’s
Holbrook
For more than four decades, the Lombardi family has set the standard of Long Island hospitality. Known for its delicious Neapolitan Italian cuisine, the Lombardis bring a little bit of timeless tradition to your wedding day.
One10
Melville
This restaurant space is designed in a modern, chic style, with plenty of natural light and warm wooden flooring. In addition to hosting wedding celebrations, One10 also operates as an Italian steakhouse.
The Halston
Melville
This new addition to the Anthony Scotto family of restaurants has everything you need on your wedding day. The Halston features exciting cuisine that you can pair with perfect wines and signature cocktails. This is the perfect venue for up to 200 guests and hosts one wedding at a time.
MORE: BOLI Preferred Venue Debuts Exciting Transformation to The Halston
Blackstone Steakhouse
Melville
Just like every couple, every wedding at Blackstone is refreshingly unique and special. Offering elegant, modern décor with quarried stone, rich natural wood and warmly glowing chandeliers and fireplaces, Blackstone sets the mood for an incredible and memorable wedding day.
Bayview House at Captain Bills
Bay Shore
The Bayview House is nestled off the South Shore and offers stunning views of the Great South Bay. It features shimmering chandeliers, a second floor bridal suite with a balcony overlooking the grand ballroom and cathedral windows showcasing panoramic water views. From intimate affairs to grand galas, the Bayview House is ready to host your special day.
The Royalton on the Greens
Melville
This family-owned venue sits on top of a hill at the heart of a breathtaking golf course. Magical waterfalls will be the perfect backdrop for your wedding photos while your guests enjoy beautiful views. Hidden by the gilded gates of a country club, Royalton on the Greens will feel like your own private oasis.
Water’s Edge
Centerport
This waterfront venue offers stunning views with the Gatsby-era charm of Long Island’s Gold Coast. Their event team offers exceptional service from an expertly trained staff, who are ready to make your dream wedding a reality.
Port Jefferson Country Club
Port Jefferson
Located along the edge of the Long Island Sound, Port Jefferson Country Club’s waterfront views can be enjoyed from the main ballroom, cocktail hour space and four expansive decks. Their dedicated team is ready to create your wedding day dreams.
Tellers: An American Chophouse
Islip
If you’re looking for a venue with history, romance and culinary artistry, then Tellers: An American Chophouse is where you should look. What was once a 1920’s First National Bank is now a fully restored and breathtaking backdrop for your wedding day. And don’t forget to ask about their private space for more intimate gatherings.
Smithtown Landing Caterers
Smithtown
This hidden gem is nestled on a pristine golf course that overlooks the Nissequogue River. It’s surrounded by lush forestry and scenic water views, creating the perfect backdrop for elegant photos with a touch of rustic romantic vibes.
Pearl Caterers
Port Jefferson
Pearl Catering at Danfords will be by your side your entire wedding era. The team is passionate about making sure your wedding day is about you and works to bring your vision to life.
And remember, no matter where you have your wedding, you will be in great hands with BOLI’s preferred venues!
Your English teacher and your gym teacher tied the knot on July 3 in New York City.
(Credit : Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce)
Taylor Swift said more than ‘yes’ this holiday weekend – she said ‘I do’ to Kansas City Chiefs tight end Travis Kelce on July 3 in New York City.
For weeks, there was speculation the pair had rented out Madison Square Garden in New York City for a two-day celebration of their nuptials. Five days before the big day, amid an impending heat wave, tents were spotted outside MSG. Workers unloaded trucks and hauled in large containers labeled with words like ‘trees,’ ‘flowers,’ etc. into the arena. Once her celebrity friends were seen in the Big Apple, it was clear that the rumors were true: Swift and Kelce’s wedding was happening.
On Thursday, July 2, blacked out SUVs arrived for the rumored rehearsal dinner for the pair. And on the big day, celebrities could be seen heading to the star-studded event.
Guests had a strict no-phone policy, but details are slowly coming out about their fairytale love story wedding. A source told People that the famed Garden was decorated to ‘look like a forest,’ with seats surrounded by ferns and trees for their ceremony officiated by Adam Sandler. Robin Roberts, Michael Strahan and George Stephanopoulos revealed on “Good Morning America” that the pair read their own vows from gold books, with each lasting about 20 minutes.
Donna Kelce, Travis’ mother, spoke at the Macy’s 50th Fourth of July Celebration and called the wedding ‘magical.’ Swift’s representative told People that the couple wore looks created by Christian Dior Haute Couture for their wedding ceremony. The rep went on to say “their shoes were custom made by Christian Louboutin and the bride wore Cartier jewelry.”
(Credit: Maren Morris/Instagram)
They chose not to have a bridal party, but Swift’s brother, Austin, was the ‘man of honor,’ while Kelce’s brother, Jason, served as his best man. The reception featured special performances from Paul McCartney and Stevie Nicks, an insider told People.
The celebrity-filled guest list, which was reportedly around 1,000 people, included Selena Gomez and her husband Benson Boone, Miranda Lambert, Hugh Grant, Bradley Cooper and Gigi Hadid, Paul Rudd, Ethan Hawke, Dakota Johnson, Ed Sheeran, Zoe Kravitz, Jimmy Fallon, Reese Witherspoon and Kelsea Ballerini.
The newlyweds got engaged nearly a year ago on August 26, 2025, after dating for two years.
In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Brandi shares how her vendor PowerPoints helped bring her garden wedding vision to life.
(Photo courtesy of Heather Jean Photography)
Brides always know what they want, but Brandi took clarity to the next level. To make sure every detail matched the picture in her head, she created PowerPoint presentations for her venue and photographer, outlining everything from décor placement to must‑have shots. Her careful planning paid off, turning her garden wedding into the exact day she’d imagined.
A Sunset Proposal
Brandi and Daniel’s love story started long before wedding planning ever entered the picture. They ran in the same friend group in high school. After graduation they began dating and never looked back, navigating college with ease. She commuted to FIT while he dormed at Monmouth University, making the hour‑and‑a‑half drive or quick train ride feel effortless. “There was no real long distance there, so that was good,” she laughs.
Eight years later, in June 2024, Daniel proposed during a sunset sail in Split, Croatia, a moment Brandi describes as “the most perfect ever.” She had been slightly suspicious of the mysteriously un‑shared booking, but played along as the captain introduced “photographers helping with marketing.” As the sun dipped low, they asked the couple to pose back‑to‑back, and when Brandi turned around, Daniel was on one knee. “It was amazing,” she says. “And since I have family in Croatia, they were the first people to see us engaged. It was just so special.”
(Photo courtesy of Heather Jean Photography)
A Garden Party Vibe
Brandi and Daniel wasted no time once they returned from Croatia. “We started planning probably on our flight back,” she says. Still in the airport, they submitted inquiries to a handful of venues, though the bulk of their planning didn’t begin until August. They toured 10 locations, knowing their top priority was finding a space that could host a daytime outdoor celebration. “We knew we wanted an outdoor wedding during the daytime,” Brandi explains. “I always loved the idea of serving brunch. It felt so unique and fun.”
The Vineyards at Aquebogue, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, ended up being the last venue they visited, and while the rustic lobby wasn’t their style, the outdoor grounds immediately won them over. Brandi even asked if guests could enter directly through the garden gates to fit her garden‑party vision and the staff didn’t hesitate. “They said, ‘No problem, we can totally accommodate that,’ and I was sold,” she says. With their date secured in early August, they turned their attention to the next major vendor: photography. “Because we were having a daytime garden party wedding, finding someone who could capture the colors and airiness of the day was super important to us.”
Brandi’s décor vision was just as intentional as her vendor choices, and her now‑famous PowerPoints became the backbone of bringing it all to life. She worked closely with photographer Heather of Heather Jean Photography, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, sending over a full mood board with “the vibe,” specific poses, must‑have family shots and exact spots on the property she wanted to use.
“On the day of, she and her second photographer actually had printouts of that PowerPoint,” Brandi says. “It was so fun seeing them go through it like, ‘Okay, we got this, this shot is next.’” She created an equally detailed presentation for the venue, mocking up the ballroom, ceremony space and every setup element in Canva and PowerPoint. Without a planner, it was her way of ensuring total clarity — and it worked. “They both said it was the best thing anyone could have given them,” she says. The result was a pastel, floral garden‑party dream, complete with a guest dress code, a flower‑wall photo booth and 150 hand‑poured candle favors that guests still rave about.
(Photo courtesy of Heather Jean Photography)
Perfect Day Magic
The week leading up to Brandi and Daniel’s wedding kept everyone guessing with steady rain, shifting forecasts and a bride refreshing her weather app every few hours. “I was so scared it was going to rain,” she says. “We could not have the ceremony inside. It would have totally defeated the purpose of booking the venue.” She turned to a little superstition for backup: the Etsy Witch. “It was the most perfect day,” she laughs. “And then the whole week after was a heat wave. It was the best $12 ever spent.” With the sun shining, their first look by the waterfalls became one of the most emotional moments of the day. “We did private first vows, and it just felt like the two of us were there,” she says. Though their families were watching quietly from the patio above. “We’re the first in our generation to get married, so everyone was just so excited.”
Vendor magic carried the day from start to finish. Heather delivered exactly the airy, colorful garden‑party aesthetic Brandi envisioned and then some. “She actually sent us previews by 2 a.m,” Brandi says. “I woke up on Sunday and already had 50 photos. I couldn’t believe it.”
Their maître d’, Mike from The Vineyards, was another standout. “Words can’t describe how happy we were with him,” she says. “He went above and beyond.” Body Rock Entertainment kept the dance floor packed all afternoon, weaving Croatian music into the playlist so Brandi’s relatives who flew in could celebrate in a way that felt like home.
After the ceremony, the couple slipped away to the bridal suite for a quiet moment, sharing cocktail‑hour bites and practicing their first dance. “We were like, I can’t believe the day is here. It was the most perfect day,” she says. “People still talk about how amazing the food was. A year later!”
(Photo courtesy of Heather Jean Photography)
Soak It In
Brandi leaned on Brides of Long Island throughout her planning — mostly as a search‑bar superuser. “I actually found our photographer and videographer through Brides of Long Island,” she says.
Now on the other side, her advice is simple: enjoy every second. “Just soak it all in,” she says. “We were on our honeymoon wondering what we were going to do now that we’re not planning a wedding! We loved the whole process. And the whole day goes by so fast – so just take it all in and enjoy.”
Vendors:
Venue: The Vineyards at Aquebogue, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Photographer: Heather Jean Photography, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Videography: JL Wedding Films
DJ: Body Rock Entertainment
Florist: Something Borrowed Blooms
Makeup: Dana Hassett Makeup
Dress: Lotus Bridal
Cake: Audrey’s Bakery
Tuxedos: Victor Talbots
Tablecloth/Runner Rental: The Finishing Touch, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Spray tan: The Bronzed Bar INC, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Should you take your mother-in-law dress shopping? Is it tradition, a common courtesy, or unnecessary?
Shopping for your wedding dress is one of the most iconic, pivotal, and fun moments of wedding planning. It’s surely something you will want to share with those closest to you, like your family and close friends.
But what about your future family members? Should you take your mother-in-law dress shopping with you? Is it a customary courtesy, just something nice to do, or totally unnecessary? As with most questions around wedding planning…it depends.
Know yourself
Every bride-to-be is different. Some are super social and want to include as many people as possible in any event. Some are more introverted and like to keep things small.
Shopping for your wedding gown should always be joyful, but if you’ve stacked the audience and you don’t enjoy being the center of attention, it can turn something fun into a real downer. The opposite is also true — if you want shopping to feel like a party but you’re only there with one or two people, you may feel a bit let down by the experience. Decide first where you fall on the spectrum. That can be a crucial step in determining your final dress shopping guest list.
It’s also important to research your top bridal boutiques before you make an appointment. Some salons only allow a certain number of guests to tag along, so keep that in mind!
Know your mother-in-law
Just like every bride is different, so is every mother-in-law. Some are kind and supportive, some…well…aren’t, and some may feel more like acquaintances than future family members.
You should know your future mother-in-law well enough by this point to know her general demeanor. Is she more quiet and reserved? Conservative and stoic? Loud and opinionated? Positive and outgoing? Will you feel encouraged and uplifted by those traits, or annoyed by them?
Remember, this is your wedding and your dress shopping experience. It’s important that you enjoy yourself, and that the event excites you for the big day.
Image courtesy of Studio 27 Photography
Know your relationship
Your future mother-in-law may feel like one of your best friends already. Or, they may not. Neither one is “good” or “bad,” it just is what it is. Family relationships are always complex, and that goes double for in-laws.
If you’re pretty close with your mother-in-law, inviting her dress shopping should be a no brainer! This is a mother figure in your life, and having her there will help to further cement all the positive aspects of your relationship. Again, remember that certain salons have guest limitations, so be sure to account for her when making your lists.
If you’re not close with your mother-in-law, there’s absolutely no law or rule that says they have to be there. Shopping for a wedding gown is a special, intimate, and meaningful event, and it should be shared with those closest to you.
If the answer is “no,” consider other ways she can be involved
While it’s totally fine to dress shop without your mother-in-law in tow, remember — it’s her child’s wedding too, and this person will be a member of your family soon. Consider including them in other aspects of wedding planning, like touring venues, bridal showers, tastings, or other events. Not only will this help your future mother-in-law feel involved in the process, but it will also help the two of you get to know each other better.
At a loss of where to begin with planning your honeymoon? These specialists have you covered.
We get it. You’re deep into wedding planning, and the thought of planning your honeymoon – which is supposed to be relaxing after your big day – is giving you anxiety.
Well, don’t worry. Below, we have some of our favorite Long Island honeymoon specialists at Brides of Long Island. Want a relaxing beach vacation? Done. Something more adventurous? No problem. Looking to explore a new country? Let’s go. These Long Island honeymoon specialists will plan every detail – and throw in some perks – to make sure you have the trip of a lifetime after your wedding day.
(Photo courtesy of Melissa at Tripguy Travel)
Melissa at Tripguy Travel
With firsthand experience on exotic vacations from the South Pacific to Europe and across the country, Melissa at Tripguy Travel is the perfect honeymoon specialist to plan your getaway. She knows the best deals and will help you decide on the perfect destination for your once in a lifetime honeymoon.
(Photo courtesy of You and Me By the Sea Travel)
You and Me By the Sea Travel
With over 30 years experience, Christine at You and Me By the Sea Travel will not only help book your perfect honeymoon, but she’ll curate an itinerary unique to the wants and needs (and wildest dreams) of you and your future spouse. From Disney and Sandals honeymoons to the exotic islands of French Polynesia, Christine is ready to plan the honeymoon of your dreams. And if you are looking to plan a destination wedding, Christine is here to help.
(Photo courtesy of Ginger Peachy Travel)
Ginger Peachy Travel
With over 30 years experience, Ginger Peachy Travel honeymoon specialists are ready to plan the perfect vacation after your wedding day. They work one-on-one with brides to create their dream honeymoon on any budget. They also specialize in destination weddings.
(Photo courtesy of Denville Travel Company)
Denville Travel Company
Ashley is a former BOLI looking to help fellow brides plan their dream honeymoon! From destination weddings and all inclusive resorts to Europe and the South Pacific, Ashley’s passion is to craft the honeymoon you’ve always dreamed of.
(Photo courtesy of Vacations by Kat)
Vacations by Kat
Kat believes your first trip as a married couple should feel like a deep exhale and a ‘This is so us’ moment. From knowing the resorts with the best cocktails to which Italian towns make for a dreamy, slow morning, Kat will help you plan the honeymoon of your dreams anywhere around the world. If you’re looking for a Greece, Italy or Caribbean honeymoon – Kat is the expert!
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Ultimate Getaway Finder
Bridget is ready to make sure your honeymoon actually feels like a honeymoon. She knows you’re deep into wedding planning and the last thing you need is honeymoon stress. That’s where Bridget comes in! She leaves no detail untouched. She specializes in romantic honeymoons, so you can just show up ready for a luxury getaway.
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What’s important, what’s not, and how do you decide? Here’s how to determine your priorities when planning your wedding.
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“Do what makes you happy.” It’s a great piece of advice for nearly everything in your life, but especially for your wedding. Your day should be focused on you and filled with personal meaning. There are no wrong ways to celebrate this new chapter, and no shortage of moments, people, or events you can include.
It’s no secret that there are A LOT of choices you’ll have to make in the planning stages. So does every choice carry the same weight? Are your venue and centerpieces just as important as your guest list and gown?
Jumping into wedding planning without first deciding what’s important is a big mistake. It can be easy to lose yourself in all the decisions you have to make, so before you start comparing swatches and tasting cakes, be sure to determine your priorities. Here’s how to do just that.
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Envision your ideal day
Some brides have pictured their perfect wedding days since recess was a thing. But if you haven’t, now’s the time to start daydreaming! It may feel a bit silly, but turn off the lights, put the phone on Do Not Disturb, close your eyes, and just envision what the absolute best wedding day would look like.
Make note of the things that stand out to you: are there a lot of people there? Is the vibe subdued or lively? Does it take place inside or outside? Immerse yourself fully into this picture perfect day.
After your daydream sesh is done, take a moment to think about the things that didn’t pop out to you. Do you remember the flowers you saw, the music you heard, the dresses your bridesmaids were in, or what your future spouse was wearing? If you did, great! Those are details that you know mean something to you. If you didn’t, those may be aspects that can go further down the list (more on that below).
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Get a realistic budget
Now that you’ve got your perfect day in mind, sit down with your fiancé (and families, if they’re contributing) and decide on your budget. Start with a broad number that you’re willing to spend on your day as a whole — don’t break it down per vendor just yet!
List everything, then put it in order
Once you have your overall budget, list all of the vendors you’ll hire and all of the expenses you’ll encounter: venue, photographer, DJ, florist, officiant…you get the picture.
Now it’s time to go back to your perfect wedding daydream and all the things you noticed. If the surroundings were the most memorable part, your venue goes to the top of your list. Your venue should also nab the top spot if you thought mostly of your guest list — you’ll want to choose a venue that can accommodate the number in your head! If it was the party atmosphere and the packed dance floor, the DJ’s got the top spot. If it was flower walls and centerpieces, your florist should be a priority. If it was the way you felt when you looked in the mirror, your dress, hair, and makeup should be number one.
Keep in mind that there are a few important vendors that you may not have “envisioned” much during your wedding daydream, like a photographer, videographer, or content creator. Remember that they’ll document your picture-perfect day so that it’s more than just a memory. Account for them in your list, too.
You’ve got the budget, and now boom — you’ve got the priorities!
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When in doubt, pull out your list
Now that you have your overall budget and your list of priorities, making decisions about your wedding should be a bit easier.
Should you go with the super expensive DJ that did your friend’s wedding, or the one with modest prices (but great reviews)? Check your list and see where “DJ” fell. Should you spring for the exotic flowers in your bouquet? It might be worth considering, if it’s something you remembered from your ideal wedding daydreaming! Once you get specific with your priorities, choices become clearer and you’ll be more likely to stick within your budget.
Remember — at the end of the day, your wedding is just that. A day. The main focus should be on celebrating the love between you and your new spouse, and that can happen anywhere with any budget.
Whether you’re after full glam or a heightened natural look, research is key to find a makeup artist for Long Island Weddings
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It goes without saying that your makeup is a pretty crucial part of your overall bridal look. And even if you’re pretty handy with a makeup brush, chances are you’ll want to hire a pro to achieve exactly what you’re looking for.
There’s no shortage of talented makeup artists on the Island, and trying to decide between them can be pretty overwhelming. Here’s Brides of Long Island’s advice for finding the right makeup artist for Long Island weddings.
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Search Brides of Long Island’s Preferred Vendors
If you want to know for sure that you’re hiring a talented, dedicated, and extremely professional makeup artist, your search should start with Brides of Long Island’s Preferred Makeup Artists.
Everyone on our Preferred Vendor roster is there because they’ve been hired and admired by REAL brides, just like you. To be accepted as a BOLI Preferred Vendor, our makeup artists go a rigorous approval process that involves lots of research and lots of vetting. If an artist doesn’t have overwhelmingly positive reviews from the members of our community, they won’t make it onto our list.
On our website, you can browse all of our incredible makeup artists, see their work, learn more about what makes them tick, get to know them as artists and people, and even contact them to set up appointments.
Think of the BOLI website as your own curated collection of personal recommendations! Once you’ve found the best makeup artist for your big day, stick around to find other vendors and gather lots of wedding ideas.
Read reviews in the Brides of Long Island’s brides-only Facebook group
The BOLI brides-only Facebook group is a fantastic resource to find any vendor. In the group you can find recent reviews (usually with pictures!) and honest feedback about a variety of Long Island makeup artists.
If you’re a bride-to-be and NOT in the brides-only Facebook group, what are you waiting for? Join us today, we can’t wait to welcome you with peace, love and diamonds.
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Stalk your favorite Long Island makeup artists on social media
Instagram, TikTok, and other social media sites are great places to see expanded portfolios of your favorite makeup artists’ work. Once you’ve discovered a few potential artists, give them a follow and start scrolling through their pages for inspiration. Once you see a few looks that match your vibe, save the posts so you can come back to them during your trials!
Here’s something to keep in mind, though — with advances in AI, anyone can make it seem like they’re a pro. Be sure that the artists you follow have a mix of “before” and “afters” along with more professional shots. Look closely at their content. If a certain photo looks a bit off, it may be AI-generated (or at least very heavily filtered).
Ask your friends for their recommendations
Your bestie looked stunning on her big day, so don’t be shy — ask her for her makeup artist’s info! Word of mouth is one way that great makeup artists build their client base, and personal referrals are always appreciated.
If you’re attending some weddings as a guest, be sure to pay attention to the bride’s and bridesmaids’ looks. Like what you see? Message the bride! (After the wedding, of course).
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Use a search engine or chat bot
We’ll be honest here, search engines and AI chat bots are not our favorite ways to find Long Island makeup artists. Why? Any artist can pay to be the first result that shows up, and ChatGPT is frequently wrong about A LOT of things.
But if all else fails, these can be ways to do some research. Just be sure to do your own vetting before signing any contracts.
Book trials
Trials can get a bit pricey, so save this step for when you’ve narrowed it down to one or two artists. Your trial is an opportunity to see if you both can communicate with each other, they can execute the look you want, and if your personalities gel. Remember, your artist will be with you during a rather stressful morning, so you’ll want to be sure they have the right energy for the day.
Follow these tips, and you’ll be sure to hire the best person for the job!
Your bridal party plays a big role in your wedding journey, but it’s important to know what they can realistically take on and where the line is.
Your bridal party is made up of the people who love you most — the ones who will hype you up, stand by your side and celebrate every moment leading up to your big day.
But even the most devoted bridesmaids have limits, and the expectations around their roles have shifted in recent years. Between rising costs, busy schedules and a growing emphasis on mental health and boundaries, today’s brides need a clear sense of what’s fair to ask … and what isn’t. To help you navigate it all, we’ve broken down what you can and can’t expect of your bridal party in 2026.
Things You Can Expect from Your Bridal Party in 2026
Emotional Support
You can absolutely expect your bridal party to show up for you emotionally: to listen, reassure you when planning gets overwhelming and celebrate the big and small moments along the way.
Showing Up for Key Events
Bridesmaids should make every reasonable effort to attend the major milestones: the bridal shower, bachelorette, dress shopping (if invited) and, of course, the wedding day itself.
Helping With Small Tasks
You can expect your crew to pitch in with manageable tasks like addressing invitations, assembling favors or helping you brainstorm ideas when you’re stuck.
Planning the Bachelorette Party
You can expect someone from your bridal party to take the lead on planning the bachelorette party by coordinating dates, choosing activities that fit the group’s budget and making sure the celebration feels fun and true to your personality.
Being Present and Supportive On The Wedding Day
From keeping you calm to helping with your dress, bouquet or touch‑ups, your bridal party should be fully present and ready to support you throughout the day.
Respecting Your Vision
Even if they wouldn’t choose the same colors, dresses or aesthetic, your bridal party should honor your choices and help bring your vision to life.
Communicating Clearly
You can expect them to respond to group chats, share availability, ask questions when needed and keep you in the loop so planning doesn’t fall on your shoulders alone.
Being Kind to Each Other
Your bridal party should treat each other with respect, avoid drama and work together to make the experience enjoyable for everyone.
Your bridal party can do a lot — but they can’t do everything. Here’s where the line is.
Things You Can’t Expect From Your Bridal Party in 2026
Unlimited Time Commitment
Between work, family and life responsibilities, your bridal party can’t be available 24/7 or attend every single pre‑wedding event, especially if travel or scheduling conflicts are involved.
Covering Every Cost
Weddings are expensive for everyone, and in 2026 bridesmaids are more vocal about financial boundaries; you can’t expect them to pay for every outfit, event, gift and travel expense without discussion.
Taking On Full Planning Roles
Your bridal party isn’t your wedding planner; while they can help with small tasks, you can’t expect them to manage vendors, timelines or major logistics.
Matching Your Energy At All Times
Even the most supportive bridesmaid may not be as excited about every detail as you are, and that’s OK; you can’t expect them to mirror your enthusiasm 100% of the time.
Mediating Drama or Conflicts
It’s not their job to manage tension between guests, family members or other bridesmaids; you can’t expect them to play peacemaker or fix interpersonal issues.
Putting Their Personal Lives On Hold
You can’t expect your bridal party to pause major life events like moving, job changes, pregnancies or financial priorities just because you’re getting married.
At the end of the day, your bridal party is there because they love you and they want to make this season feel joyful, not stressful. When you understand what’s fair to expect (and what isn’t), you create space for a healthier, happier experience for everyone involved. Set clear expectations, honor their boundaries and remember that the people standing beside you on your wedding day are choosing to show up for you in the ways they genuinely can. And that’s what truly matters.