Last year’s fire at Bridal Reflections’ Massapequa salon led to an expanded showroom and a new focus.
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March 30, 2025 was a day that transformed BOLI Preferred Vendor Bridal Reflections, ultimately for the better – an electrical fire that started in the basement of their Massapequa salon led to a year of growth, change, and expansion for the legendary brand.
“While the fire was an unexpected and difficult moment, it ultimately became a turning point that allowed Bridal Reflections to thoughtfully evolve,” said Brenna Cicciari, Bridal Reflections’ Marketing Manager. “Rather than simply reopening the space as it was, we took the opportunity to step back and evaluate how our Long Island locations could best serve our brides and their families moving forward.”
After the team discussed their options and brainstormed ideas, the decision was made to create a robust and immersive bridal experience at their Carle Place salon. The Massapequa space would be devoted to a new vision: a dedicated destination for Mother of the Bride and Groom gowns, evening wear, and special occasion attire.
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“A place where mothers and special occasion clients feel just as celebrated as the bride.”
The reimagined Massapequa location will provide the signature Bridal Reflections experience for a wider audience. “The vision is to create a space that feels elevated and refined, while still warm and welcoming,” said Brenna. “A place where mothers and special occasion clients feel just as celebrated as the bride.”
“We’re considering how these clients shop differently and how they want to feel in the space,” she continued. “The goal is for the new salon to feel like a natural extension of Bridal Reflections, allowing us to grow into a new category with the same attention to detail and exceptional service people have come to expect. The showroom will feature a carefully selected assortment of gowns that reflect sophistication, style, and versatility. It’s designed to serve not just wedding-day needs, but all of life’s most meaningful celebrations.”
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“Brides appreciate having everything under one roof.”
Brides of Long Island have come to appreciate the elegance, sophistication, and convenience of Bridal Reflections’ expanded Carle Place salon. “By consolidating our Long Island bridal inventory into one location, we’ve been able to offer brides a broader selection of designers, a more spacious environment, and a seamless appointment experience,” explained Brenna. “Brides appreciate having everything under one roof, with more room to explore and truly enjoy the process.
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“The future of Bridal Reflections is about honoring transition while embracing thoughtful growth.”
With these much-anticipated updates on the horizon, the Bridal Reflections team is looking ahead with pride and enthusiasm. “The future of Bridal Reflections is about honoring tradition while embracing thoughtful growth,” Brenna described. “As we look ahead, we’re excited to keep evolving, introducing new designers, enhancing our spaces, and elevating the experience across every salon while remaining rooted in the values that have guided us for over 50 years.
“We’re continuing to grow in a way that feels intentional and true to who we are, allowing us to serve our community better than ever before.”
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Which vendors were crowned with BOLI’s highest honor? Introducing the 2026 Brides of Long Island Diamond Award winners!
BOLI is proud to claim our area’s best wedding pros as Preferred Vendors. Each year, we recognize the truly outstanding companies and individuals with our annual Diamond Award. You cast your votes and the results are in — below are our 2026 Brides of Long Island Diamond Award winners!
Venues
Bridal Salons
Alterations and Custom Design
Bridal Alterations Studio by Kirstyn
Photo and Video
Hair and Makeup
Hotel Block
DJ and Entertainment
Bands and Musicians
Transportation
Florists
Boudoir Photography
Bridal Beauty Prep
Dance Lessons
Rentals and Decor
Jewelers
Fun Extras
Content Creators
Honeymoon Specialists
Invitations and Stationery
Red Letter Day Invitations and Design
Menswear
Officiant
Photo Booth
Showers, Rehearsals, and Bachelorettes
Wedding Planners and Coordinators
Catering Trucks and Piaggio Ape
Wedding Cakes and Baked Goods
In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Raina can’t stop raving about how her now-husband Greg helped her plan their dream wedding.
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
With Raina doing the research and Greg joining vendor meetings, this perfect power couple planned their special Sept. 7, 2025 wedding. The most important thing for the pair though? Making sure they stayed grounded and remembered the day was an exceptional way to share their love with their family and friends.
A Chance Meeting
Raina and Greg are both sober and met through a mutual friend at a meeting in 2022. Two years later, Greg proposed in Maine, at a summer lake house that has been in his family for years. “It’s such a special place for him, and now it’s such a special place for us,” she said. He planned a romantic dinner, complete with a slideshow on a boat. “We watched the sunset and he was playing music,” Raina said. “I felt like I was in a movie.”
Hit the Ground Running
Raina wasted no time diving into wedding planning after their engagement, starting in August and quickly discovering Brides of Long Island. “I wouldn’t have been able to plan my wedding if it wasn’t for this group,” she said, grateful for the guidance to secure vendors early. With so many brides recommending to book at least a year out, she and Greg locked in most of their major vendors right away. The fast start gave them a sense of calm later on. “I thought we’d get to chill a little more,” she said. “Once I saw what needed to be done, we switched gears and then we were able to relax in between.”
For both Raina and Greg, the venue was the top priority. They spent two weekends touring six or seven locations, knowing they wanted an on‑site ceremony, an outdoor element and a space that felt warm, intimate and classy. Water’s Edge, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, ended up being the last venue they visited. The moment they walked in, everything clicked. “It was just like magic,” Raina said. “It checked all the boxes.”
Throughout the whole wedding planning process, Greg was there – something Raina was grateful for. “I handled the research and scheduling,” she said. “And Greg was fully involved, joining every tour and vendor meeting. He’s amazing.”
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
MORE: The Types of Fiancés You’ll Encounter During Wedding Planning
Feeling Beautiful and Calm
Despite waking up to a stormy morning, Raina stayed surprisingly calm as she got ready for her vows. By the time she and her bridesmaids arrived at the venue, the rain had finally stopped — only for her to discover the ceremony was being set up indoors. She trusted her instincts and politely advocated for the outdoor ceremony she’d always envisioned. “We’re going outside,” she told the team, as long as it wasn’t actively pouring. The staff dried the space, the skies held and she got the ceremony she’d dreamed of. Looking back, she’s grateful she spoke up. “If I didn’t say anything, we were going inside, and I would have been disappointed.”
MORE: 6 Reasons Why Rain on Your Wedding Day Can Be Awesome
Raina also felt truly beautiful on her wedding day, thanks to Be Beautiful Brides, the hair and makeup team she calls her favorite vendor.
The day was rounded out with thoughtful personal touches: cocktail napkins featuring a sketch of her dog, a signature drink inspired by Maine and a celebration centered around the family and friends who mean the most to them.
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
Staying Grounded
The best part of the day was the way Raina and Greg kept returning to each other, grounding themselves in the love that brought them there in the first place. “Whenever the excitement felt overwhelming, we’d reconnect with a glance or a touch, reminding ourselves that this day is about us and our love,” said Raina. Writing their own vows made the ceremony especially intimate, and being sober allowed them to take in every detail with total clarity, something she describes as deeply meaningful.
Their first dance to “I’m With You” by Vance Joy felt like fate, especially after hearing him close with that very song at a concert just weeks before. “We actually took dance lessons before, so we could do more than just sway back and forth on the dance floor,” Raina added.
The night also held a joyful surprise with her mom: a choreographed Zumba routine the two performed together after a quick outfit change, a nod to the classes they each love. It was a playful, personal and heartfelt moment that delighted their guests and gave Raina a second special dance beyond the traditional one with her dad.
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
MORE: 5 Reasons Why You Should Choreograph Your First Dance
The Perfect Day
All of their vendors went above and beyond to create the perfect day for Raina and Greg. Tommy Tunes, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, kept everyone on the dance floor the entire night. The bridal attendant at Water’s Edge ensured that Raina always looked her best. Melissa at Tripguy Travel, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, planned their honeymoon to Paris and Greece.
And Raina can’t forget to give Brides of Long Island another shout-out. “I don’t know how I could have planned our wedding without this group,” Raina said. “It was so helpful to read all of the vendor reviews, and get helpful tips on different ideas from my bridal shower to the morning of.”
Now that she’s settling into newlywed bliss, Raina wants other brides to make sure that the excitement is greater than the stress. “The day is about love, positivity and happiness,” said Raina. “There’s no reason why the negatives should outweigh that.”
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
Vendors:
Venue: Water’s Edge, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Photographer/Videography: RF Films & Photography, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
DJ: Tommy Tunes, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Florist: Bella Flowers
Hair/Makeup: BeBeautiful Brides
Dress: The Bridal World, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Maid of Honor Dress: Here Comes the Bridesmaid, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Invitations: Red Letter Day Invitations and Design, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Cake: Dortoni’s in Levittown
Tuxedos: Men’s Wearhouse and Esquire Tuxedos, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Transportation: Sir Oliver Limousine, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Dance Lessons: Xtreme Rhythm Weddings, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Honeymoon (Paris & Greece): Melissa at Tripguy Travel, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
(Photo courtesy of RF Photography)
This article sponsored by Bridal Reflections, a Brides of Long Island Preferred Vendor!
A fun way to celebrate or just another item on your wedding to-do list?
After the excitement of saying “yes,” you may find yourself wondering if an engagement party belongs on your wedding checklist. Truthfully, this is a sort of loaded question. On the one hand, it is another thing to add to your ever-growing to-do list for your wedding, but on the other hand it could be a great way to celebrate your upcoming nuptials in a relaxed, chill environment with your closest friends and family.
To answer the question of, should you throw an engagement party, consider these questions to help you decide.
When will your wedding be?
Timing is one of the most important factors to consider when deciding on an engagement party. A long engagement gives you the chance to celebrate early and build excitement for the big day. But if your wedding is less than 18 months away, you may want to skip the party and focus on sending save-the-dates instead.
Who will host the party?
Sometimes, parents or close relatives take the lead in hosting, but many couples prefer to plan the celebration themselves. Deciding who will be responsible early on helps avoid confusion and ensures everyone is on the same page. Whether you want to embrace tradition or keep full control, clarifying the host sets the tone for how the party will come together. Pro tip: This could also set the tone for your wedding planning too!
Who would you invite?
Some couples choose to invite everyone who will eventually be at the wedding, while others keep the engagement party small and intimate with just close family and friends. A smaller guest list can create a cozy atmosphere and also helps avoid any awkwardness if your wedding guest list changes before the big day. Think about whether you want this to be a preview of the wedding or a more personal gathering.
How will this fit into your overall wedding budget?
It’s important to think about how an engagement party fits into your bigger financial picture. Beyond the immediate costs like food, drinks and décor, consider whether hosting the party might take away from funds you’d rather allocate to the wedding itself. Be honest about your priorities: if splurging on wedding day or honeymoon matters more, scaling back or skipping the engagement party could be the smarter choice.
Where would you have it and what kind of vibe do you want?
This often ties directly into your budget. For a relaxed, low-key atmosphere, a house party or backyard barbecue can feel personal and fun. An intimate dinner at your favorite restaurant offers simplicity with a touch of elegance, while some couples opt for a more elaborate “mini-wedding” style event complete with décor and entertainment. Think about the vibe you want to create and choose a setting that reflects your vision for the day.
Will it overlap with other celebrations?
Between bridal showers, bachelor/bachelorette parties and the rehearsal dinner, there are already plenty of opportunities to celebrate before the wedding. Think about whether hosting another event enhances the excitement or simply adds to the calendar. If you’d rather keep things streamlined, you may decide to skip the engagement party and focus on the other milestone celebrations instead.
Do you want gifts involved?
Gift-giving at engagement parties can be a tricky subject. Some couples prefer to keep the celebration purely about the joy of the moment, with no pressure for guests to bring presents. Others see it as the perfect opportunity to start receiving items they’ll use in married life. There’s no right or wrong choice. Make sure to communicate clearly with your guests so everyone can celebrate without uncertainty.
Do you really want one?
After weighing all the factors, the ultimate decision of whether you should throw an engagement party comes down to whether you truly want one. If you love hosting and are excited to celebrate this next chapter with your partner, then go ahead and start planning! But if the idea of being the center of attention at yet another event or simply the thought of organizing one more party feels overwhelming, it’s perfectly fine to skip it and focus your energy on planning what will be one of the best days of your life.
At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong answer. What matters most is choosing the kind of celebration that feels true to you and your love story.
As one of the longest-standing wedding photography studios on Long Island, The Glenmar Studio captures your day with expertise and passion. And now, they’re offering Brides of Long Island an exclusive free gift when booking your photography package. Read on for more information.
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When the flowers fade, the music softens and the makeup gets washed away, there will be one element from your wedding day that remains: your photos.
Choosing a photographer is one of the most important wedding decisions you’ll make, because ultimately they do a lot more than just take pictures – they immerse themselves in your love story, support you throughout the planning process, and provide much-needed aftercare when your wedding has come and gone.
The artists at BOLI Preferred Vendor The Glenmar Studio understand these responsibilities, and consider it their calling to capture not only your wedding day, but all the beautiful events that happen afterwards. They offer a wide range of services including photography, videography, content creation, and custom album design.
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“My uncle would always say, ‘find the light.’” – The Glenmar Studio
The history of The Glenmar Studio is storied, dating all the way back to 1936. “I believe we’re the longest running studio in New York,” said Alison Spalter, owner of The Glenmar Studio. “It’s a third generation family business. My grandfather opened the studio in the Bronx. My uncle brought it to Roslyn in the ‘70s, and we’ve been there ever since.”
While 90 years have passed since they first opened their doors, Glenmar’s approach to photography has remained the same. “My uncle would always say, ‘find the light,” Alison said. “Photography and cinematography are mediums where you can use composition and light, tell stories and convey emotion. So what my uncle taught me about finding light became my inspiration. It’s a quality that we look for when hiring new Glenmar shooters.”
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“We’re creating something to last a lifetime.” – The Glenmar Studio
When asked about Glenmar’s signature style, Alison answered “it’s based off capturing the true emotion and beauty of the day, with as much natural light as possible”
“Weddings are incredibly beautiful,” she added. “We don’t need to jump into any trends. 80% of the day we cover photo-journalistically, and 20% is the more controlled portraiture.”
Since couples can have polarizing opinions on portraits, Alison emphasized the importance of versatility. “We get a lot of information from our clients so that we can execute their vision,” she explained. “Whether they want an editorial portrait session or a relaxed but cohesive portrait session. We typically try to accomplish a little of both. We like to cover all the family combos to make sure they get pictures with all the special people in their lives. We want to accommodate everyone’s requests as best we can, parents as well as the couple.. We’re creating something to last a lifetime.”
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“We will work with any budget.” – The Glenmar Studio
Many vendors offer specific packages for engaged couples, but Glenmar prefers to keep things personalized. “As professionals in the business for so many years, we try to listen to their ideas in order to curate a project that fits the clients vision for the day. We basically start from scratch,” Alison said. “We’ll try to explain why you’d maybe want a second photographer, or we’d explain why their wedding may not need one. We communicate our recommendations based on their budget, what their ideas are for the day, and what’s needed to make those ideas come to life.”
“We just sit down and start a conversation,” she continued. “We don’t want to say, ‘here’s this giant package, take it or leave it.’ We will work with any budget. We offer discounts for winter weddings, but no matter what we’ll figure out some sort of coverage that fits.”
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“We have clients that have worked with us for decades.” – The Glenmar Studio
Glenmar may be a photography studio, but Alison sees their role in a more expansive manner. “We’re not only photographers, we’re also a staff of professionals that help clients through the process of planning their wedding,” she described. “We help our couples build a timeline, and then we move on through almost the entire wedding day with them. Our brides and grooms start to rely on us, because we’re with them from the very beginning. We even carry pins in our bags. I can’t even tell you how many bustles I’ve saved!”
That intimacy carries on beyond your ‘I do’s.’ “I always tell brides, ‘if you look through enough of our albums, you’re going to find somebody you know,” she described. “We have clients that have worked with us for decades, through weddings, birthdays, births. It’s so rewarding that we build these lasting relationships.”
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“Once the day comes, stop planning.” – The Glenmar Studio
Alison’s biggest piece of advice for brides of Long Island is to stay present. “All the people you love are coming together to celebrate you, and it’s a beautiful feeling that can get lost on the day,” she said. “There’s so much happening, it’s a blur. So be present with each other. Once the day comes, stop planning. Let your professionals carry you through.”
She also suggested sticking with the highly-rated BOLI Preferred Vendor community. “You can’t go wrong with any of BOLI’s vendors,” she said. “You’re only recommended by Brides of Long Island if you’re known in this industry and you know what you’re doing.”
Brides of Long Island loves The Glenmar Studio, and we want to pass that love along to our brides! Mention this article and receive a FREE GIFT from The Glenmar Studio when booking your wedding!
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A well-planned timeline keeps your celebration stress-free and running smoothly.
Your wedding day is filled with countless moving parts, from hair and makeup to photos, vows and the dance floor. Having a clear timeline ensures everything flows seamlessly, so you can focus on the joy instead of the logistics. While it may seem overwhelming at first, creating your wedding day schedule doesn’t have to be stressful. Here is how to make your wedding day timeline to ensure your day unfolds beautifully and without a hitch.
Seek the Help of Your Vendors
This is key! Lean on your vendors for guidance; they’ve done this countless times and know how long each part of the day typically takes. Your photographer, planner and beauty team can help you build a realistic timeline.
Here are some other things to consider making your wedding day timeline:
Work Backward
Start by noting the time your ceremony begins, then work backward to fill in the rest of your day. This ensures you’ll know exactly how much time you have for each step, from getting ready to photos.
Consider Location
Factor in travel time between venues, whether it’s from your getting-ready spot to the ceremony or from the ceremony to the reception. Even short distances can take longer than expected, so build in a buffer for unexpected things like traffic.
Where Will You Be Getting Ready?
Decide if you’ll get ready at home, a hotel or your venue. Each option comes with different logistics, like space for your bridal party, lighting for photos and proximity to the ceremony.
Will You Be Having a First Look?
If you’re planning a first look, carve out time before the ceremony for this special moment. It not only gives you a chance to connect privately but also allows more flexibility for photos.
Remember the Little Things
Don’t forget to schedule time for small but important details, like eating breakfast, touching up makeup or signing your marriage license. These moments keep the day running smoothly.
What’s Your Reception Vision?
Decide whether you want a formal dinner, lively dance party or relaxed cocktail-style celebration. Consider things like introductions, first dance, toasts, cake cutting and bouquet toss. Share that vision with your DJ so they can help pace the night with the right music and energy.
Buffer for Breathing Room
Definitely add some time, just 10–15 minutes here and there, for breaks, touch-ups or simply soaking in the moment. These small pauses help keep the day feeling relaxed and give vendors time to reset if things run behind.
Even the most carefully crafted timelines can go a little off course and that’s perfectly okay! What matters most is that you’ve set yourself up with a solid plan, surrounded by trusted vendors and loved ones who can help keep things moving. If a few minutes slip here or there, don’t stress; the joy of the day will shine through regardless, and those unscripted moments often become the sweetest memories.
Below is an example of how to make your wedding day timeline. Remember – take your vendors’ advice! Individual factors, like bridal party size, reception location, etc. will make a difference. (Ceremony at 2:30 p.m., Reception at 6:00 p.m.)
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7 a.m. – Hair & Makeup Begins
The beauty team starts with bridesmaids, then the bride. Photographers may arrive for detail shots (dress, rings, invitations). -
10 a.m. – Bridal Party Gets Dressed
The bride and attendants finish getting ready. Photographer captures candid moments. -
12 p.m. – First Look & Portraits
The couple shares a private first look, followed by bridal party and family photos. -
2 p.m. – Guests Begin Arriving
Ushers and ceremony staff welcome guests; pre-ceremony music begins. -
2:30 p.m. – Ceremony
Processional, vows and recessional. Ceremony length varies. -
2:45 p.m. – Post-Ceremony Photos
Group shots with extended family or any portraits not taken earlier. -
5 p.m. – Cocktail Hour
Guests enjoy drinks and hors d’oeuvres while couples finish photos or freshen up. -
6 p.m. – Reception Begins
Grand introductions, first dance followed by toasts and dinner. -
8 p.m. – Dancing & Cake Cutting
Dance all night long followed by dessert. -
9:45 p.m.– Last Dance & Send-Off
Couple shares a final dance before a sparkler exit or other farewell.
As the newest Lessing’s property, Port Jefferson Country Club boasts upgraded interiors and exceptional hospitality.
Brides of Long Island can take in Port Jefferson Country Club at the venue’s Wedding Showcase on February 7 – read on for more details.
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The name “Lessing’s” has come to define unforgettable weddings. From their staff of dedicated professionals to their heralded menu offerings, many brides of Long Island seek out the Lessing’s family of venues to host the days of their dreams.
Port Jefferson Country Club, a BOLI Preferred Venue, carries on the Lessing’s tradition of impeccable service in a truly unique atmosphere.
“Everywhere you look, there’s water.” – Port Jefferson Country Club
Port Jefferson Country Club is Lessing’s newest venue, though the property itself has long been a fixture in the community. “It’s a key institution,” said Joe Scalice, General Manager of Port Jefferson Country Club. “Over the years, it’s been home to Lombardi’s on the Sound and later Waterview. Lessing’s took over in April of 2025 acquired a great property and renovated it beyond perfection.”
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Renovations followed, including opening up the ballroom and expanding sight lines throughout the space. “It’s been refreshed,” Scalice said. “The room now feels light and open, with a wall of glass and doors spanning the entire width of the ballroom. Even on the haziest days, guests are treated to extraordinary views of the Long Island Sound.”
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What was once the Waterview restaurant is now home to Port Jefferson Country Club’s cocktail hour space. “It’s a big, beautiful room that, again, overlooks the Long Island Sound and has its own private deck. It sets the tone for the entire evening.”
“As far as the ceremony, we have two rooms upstairs: Harbor View and Sound View, and they both have their own outdoor decks,” Joe continued. “Additionally, there’s a new space we’re promoting called the Meadow. It was once the tennis courts and is now a gorgeous field of green that overlooks the water. Everywhere you look, there’s water.”
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“We are very flexible, we want to personalize.” – Port Jefferson Country Club
No two couples are alike, and Port Jefferson Country Club is committed to bringing every couple’s specific wedding day visions to life. “We are very flexible, we want to personalize,” Joe explained. “Everyone has a different way of thinking about their wedding day and what they want. We’ve thought of every question that the bride and groom could ever worry about, and that’s all worked on. It’s like the script to a play, so when we get out there and it’s the day to do the performance, everyone is on the same page.”
Paired with that versatility is the incredible passion that fuels every member of the Port Jefferson Country Club team. “Everyone on our staff makes the effort and does what they do with enthusiasm,” Joe said. “Something that I always look for in our team members is the amount of passion for the industry and for making every wedding an event to remember. Going the extra mile is what it’s all about! This is somebody’s special day, and now we’re a part of their history. We want them to remember their day as something extraordinary and beyond their expectations.”
“We have people who understand how important this is, and that’s due to proper selection, proper training, encouragement, and leading by example,” he added.
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“If we’re doing the wedding correctly, no one wants to sit down.” – Port Jefferson Country Club
Lessing’s venues are known for their insatiable menus, and Port Jefferson Country Club is no different. “There are so many wonderful things,” Joe detailed. “Our chef has incredible innate talent, has been trained in top-tier kitchens, and is delivering restaurant-caliber, à la minute cuisine.”
“For cocktail hour, one of my favorites is the Steak House Carvery,” he continued. “It’s more than just a standard carving station – bone and rib eye cuts, sirloin, flank steak, served with creamed spinach and potatoes, crispy onions, and Peter Luger steak sauce.”
“The Chianti Braised Short Ribs is a favorite entree,” he added. “It falls apart with a fork. The flavors are wonderful.”
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Of course, you’ll want to top the night off with a sweet treat. Fortunately, you won’t have to decide between dessert and the dance floor. “If we’re doing the wedding correctly, no one wants to sit down,” Joe said. “I love that we have passed desserts for that reason. It allows people to dance and grab a cheesecake lollipop, or churro, or a mini jelly donut. It’s fun as opposed to something that’s traditionally formal.”
“We also have a beautiful selection of enhancements,” he concluded. “My career has largely focused on wine, so for the wine lovers, I’m always available for upgrades whether it be for one person, one course, or the entire wedding.”
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“Ask all the questions.” – Port Jefferson Country Club
Joe stressed the importance of sticking with your wedding day vision. “Don’t be afraid to express, even if you can’t articulate it fully, what you see your wedding being like,” he recommended. “Ask all the questions. Make sure you have coordination between all of your vendors and the property itself. Make sure that the level of care and flexibility is there for you to personalize your wedding.”
“If you have the opportunity, try to use house vendors,” he emphasized. “Do your research and look at the reviews, but that photographer knows where all the shots are and won’t waste your entire cocktail hour trying to find the perfect photo. That florist will know the table sizes and what works best in the room. It’s important to look at everything from a practical point of view, trust the professionals, and trust your own instincts and vision.”
Enjoy the beauty and hospitality of
Port Jefferson Country Club at their Wedding Showcase!
Saturday, February 7
12pm-3pm
Register here!
Discover the best florists on Long Island — trusted BOLI Preferred Vendors ready to bring your wedding vision to life.
(Photo courtesy of Lauren Taylor Floral Elegance)
From stunning bouquets and elegant centerpieces to archways and floral décor that transform your ceremony and reception, our BOLI Preferred Vendors are here to make your day unforgettable. We have 10 of the best florists on Long Island, each specializing in unique designs and personalized service. You’re sure to find the perfect florist to make your celebration bloom.
Lauren Taylor Floral Elegance
For decades, Lauren Taylor Floral Elegance in Lindenhurst has been fulfilling wedding floral and décor dreams for brides. They specialize in working with only one bride a day. And Lauren will oversee all aspects of your floral planning – from the first meeting to picking out the arrangements and the delivery.
(Photo courtesy of Tom’s Towers Flowers)
Tom’s Towers Flowers
Tom’s Towers Flowers in West Islip has specialized in wedding and event floral designs for over 45 years! Their in house specialist, Jan, can make any floral arrangement dream come true!
(Photo courtesy of James Cress Florist and Events)
James Cress Florist and Events
This family owned floral business is ready to make sure all of your floral wedding design visions come true. They work hard to make every wedding a magical and memorable experience. The day of your wedding, they make sure one of their owners is always on site to ensure a smooth delivery and set up.
(Photo courtesy of Beautiful Beginnings Flowers)
Beautiful Beginnings Flowers
Beautiful Beginnings Flowers in Bethpage prides itself on cutting edge design and top notch service. One of the three wedding specialists, Lori, Deanna and Jenn, who you will meet with to design the perfect wedding flowers, will make sure to be on site the day of your wedding.
(Photo courtesy of With All My Heart Floral Design and Invitation Studio)
With All My Heart Floral Design & Invitation Studio
The designers at All My Heart in Wading River and Bohemia work exclusively to create the most exquisite and beautiful floral arrangements for your big day. Not only will they fulfill all of your floral needs, they also specialize in invitation design.
(Photo courtesy of Perry’s Florist and Event Rentals)
Perry’s Florist & Event Rentals
For 70 years, Perry’s Florist, a family owned floral shop, has been renowned for creating exquisite wedding floral arrangements and event designs. The team is committed to learning your vision and bringing it to life with fresh flowers and stunning décor.
(Photo courtesy of Flowers by Manny)
Flowers by Manny
Manny Montes has over 15 years experience in the floral industry. He devotes his talents to helping couples bring their wedding floral visions to life. He and his team specialize in romantic and classic themes, and they make sure to handpick every bloom, leaf and spray for your special day.
(Photo courtesy of Gifts from the Heart Florist)
Gifts from the Heart Florist
With nearly 30 years experience in the floral industry, Martha from Gifts from the Heart Florist says she loves working with brides and grooms to bring their wedding day floral ideas to life. From understated to outrageous, Martha works with all budgets to create the perfect florals for your big day.
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The Flower Pot
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In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Lindsay tells us about the in-depth research she did to create her perfect day at RGNY Vineyard.
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Although Lindsay and Nico first connected online, they ran in the same crowd so they believe their paths would have crossed eventually. Eight years later, they celebrated the love that had grown between them in front of family and friends, made even more meaningful by a dear friend who officiated their wedding. Having that friend officiate made the ceremony feel deeply personal, adding an unforgettable touch to their celebration.
A Fateful Swipe
When Lindsay swiped right on Nico in 2017, she had no idea they already shared mutual friends — including her cousin. “We actually grew up about five minutes from each other,” she said. “When I met his friends for the first time, my cousin was in the room! And he was friends with people I went to high school with.”
With so many connections, their bond grew naturally over the years, leading to a summer 2024 day trip to Montauk with Lindsay’s brother and his girlfriend. “And then Nico proposed at the Lighthouse,” she recalled. “Turns out, my brother was there to take photos of us getting engaged!”
Building Her Dream Wedding
Lindsay and Nico wasted no time diving into plans for their November 8, 2025 wedding at RGNY Vineyard. Once the venue was booked, they quickly realized they would need to bring in their own vendors. “RGNY made things easy when it came to vendors, since they provided a long list,” she said. “We could have chosen anyone we wanted, but for catering we did have to stick to their eight or nine preferred caterers.”
Photography was the most important vendor for Lindsay, followed closely by hair and makeup. “I think for Nico, photography was important as well,” she said. “He also wanted a content creator. He thought that was such a unique and special thing.”
With RGNY serving as a blank canvas, Lindsay and Nico embraced the freedom to design a celebration that reflected their personalities. “We had a black tie wedding, but the vineyard itself is rustic and a little bit boho,” Lindsay said. “I always made a joke — it was like Black Tie Barnyard wedding. We wanted it to feel very relaxed and comfortable, but also very elegant.”
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Their color scheme of black and silver, accented with greenery and plenty of disco balls, created a vibe that was both chic and playful. The couple took care to interview each vendor, ensuring they felt comfortable with the people who would play such a big role in their day. “We had a really, really great process,” Lindsay shared. “I’m so thankful for all of our vendors…we took a lot of care when we picked them, and I had such an amazing experience with all of them.”
A Bet Worth Making
One of the most meaningful parts of Lindsay and Nico’s day was having their best friend officiate the ceremony. “My friend and I made a bet. Neither of us remember what the bet was, but I wrote on a Post-it note that he could marry me. He kept that note in a lockbox for five years, and when we got engaged, he said, ‘By the way, I’m going to cash in on this,’” Lindsay shared.
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It was his first time officiating, but his authenticity and genuine delivery made the ceremony unforgettable. “It was just so special to have someone who knew us so well – who’s had a front row seat in our entire relationship – marry us and make it such a memorable moment,” she said. Lindsay and Nico chose to exchange their vows privately in RGNY’s rose garden, to create a quiet moment for the two of them, and to keep the focus on their friend’s words during the ceremony.
The couple’s vendors also played a huge role in making the day extraordinary. Their DJ, Ello Entertainment, a BOLI Preferred Vendor and a longtime friend, tailored the music perfectly to their tastes. “He knew exactly what we would like, and threw in oldies and Latin music because Nico is Puerto Rican,” Lindsay said. “It appealed to everyone, but it still felt like our wedding and our music.”
Their photographer, Janelle Brooke Photography , a BOLI Preferred Vendor, was another standout. “She was out of this world — I have no words for how amazing she was to be with,” Lindsay recalled. “You spend so much of your day with your photographer, and her being so great really had such an impact.”
Trusting the Process
Lindsay credits the Brides of Long Island Facebook group as a helpful resource throughout her planning. “I always searched for vendors. And I read everything,” she said.
Looking back, she describes herself as a relaxed bride who trusted the process and enjoyed every moment. “Just relax — that’s my best piece of advice,” Lindsay shared. “Nothing is that serious. Everything is going to work out, and you’re going to have the best day ever. If you love your partner, your friends and your family, you’re surrounded by good people. I could have gotten married in a shoe box and it still would have been the best day.”
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Vendors:
Venue: RGNY Vineyard
Photographer/Content Creator: Janelle Brooke Photography , a BOLI Preferred Vendor
DJ/Videography: Ello Entertainment, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Florist: Hometown Flower Company
Hair and Makeup: Beyond the Brush
Dessert/Cake/Food Truck: The Treatery
Tuxedos: Thomas Mitchel Clothiers
Transportation: Sir Oliver Limousine, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Day of Coordinator: Fab Day Events
Catering: Christopher Michael Catering
(Photo courtesy of Janelle Brooke Photography)
Whether it’s an energetic dance floor or a chill and intimate vibe, Absolute Entertainment drives your wedding day to match every expectation
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When you think of your ideal wedding reception, what do you picture? Is every guest out of their seat, dancing to a high energy soundtrack that shakes the walls? Or is everyone mingling with each other, enjoying cigars or photo booths with your favorite songs setting the mood?
Whatever your vision may be, the DJs and MCs at BOLI Preferred Vendor Absolute Entertainment are ready to bring your party to life. And with decades of experience (and 4 BOLI Diamond Awards) under their belt, they’re the masters at guiding your day to match your every expectation.
“You want to focus on things you really care about the most.” – Absolute Entertainment
With all the wedding inspo out there, how do you decide what’s best for you? “I think having a realistic expectation is one of the most important things to understand,” said Cenzo Kaufmann, General Manager and DJ with Absolute Entertainment. “If a couple has an expectation of a packed dance floor the entire time, there are a lot of different variables that can aid that vision as opposed to work against that vision.”
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“I find that many brides and grooms put so much pressure on themselves with all these different forms of entertainment because they want their wedding to be great,” he continued. “If your biggest priority is the dancing, then less is more sometimes. You want to focus on things that you really care about the most.”
“One of the things that I say to clients is, “stay with your vision,’” added Terrence Legrady, Sales Director and MC with Absolute. “If you have a clear, concise vision of what you want for your wedding, try not to defer from that as you see what everyone else is doing. Does it fit your vision for your wedding? If it doesn’t, do not buy it.”
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“Every single decision that is made for your reception falls on the shoulders of your entertainment.” – Absolute Entertainment
There’s no shortage of companies marketing themselves as wedding pros. How important is it to hire someone who’s been in the industry for a while? “I find a lot of people who are inexperienced tend to be what I call ‘yes-men,’” said Cenzo. “They’re focused on doing exactly what the bride and groom think they want, when realistically, this is their first wedding, and sometimes don’t know what they exactly want. They don’t know what makes the difference between a good wedding and a great wedding, and that is where an experienced entertainment company comes into play. We want every wedding to be fantastic, something that people are going to remember.”
“Half the time, I’ll have an idea that may enhance the couple’s vision for a particular moment, or how to assist in structuring a more efficient timeline that I’ll run past the bride and groom. At the end of the day it’s their wedding and we will do what they want, but I feel like I’m doing them an injustice if I don’t give them my best advice,” he continued. “It’s the difference between knowing how to guide and coach a couple through the big day versus just being the ‘yes’ man, and experience gives you that.”
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Terrence agreed. “Every single decision that is made for your reception falls on the shoulders of your entertainment,” he added. “That is why we need to interject sometimes and say ‘we’re happy to do whatever you’d like, but if you wouldn’t mind our educated option on this,’ and thankfully our brides and grooms say ‘we didn’t know that. Thank you for explaining it to us.’”
“Every bride and groom wants to celebrate differently.” – Absolute Entertainment
It may be tempting to match a trend you see on TikTok, or take the advice of your best friend that got married last year, but Terrence and Cenzo caution against those impulses. “The overwhelming majority of clients these days are going straight to social media for everything,” said Terrence. “Every bride and groom wants to celebrate differently, so you should be seeking your entertainment’s opinion on certain things that are going to enhance your overall experience.”
He gave a valuable example. “You may be seeking the advice from another bride who only had 10 people in her bridal party, whereas you have 20 people in your bridal party. Trust your entertainment company so you can really choose something that is specific to you and makes sense for your wedding.”
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“Using vendors that know the venue inside and out is paramount.” – Absolute Entertainment
Terrence and Cenzo also recommended sticking with a venue’s preferred vendor list. “Every venue operates a little bit differently,” Cenzo said. “Working with the recommended vendors just makes it a well-oiled machine as opposed to a situation where your maitre d’ wastes time babysitting your entertainers when that time can be better spent attending to you and your guests. Everything should be efficient, and working with recommended vendors really aids in that.”
“When we walk into a venue where we work all the time, the maitre d’ walks over and hugs us and the bride and groom see that,” Terrence added. “It’s basically an extension of our family, and they see how well we work together. I can literally finish the maitre d’s sentences and vice versa.”
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“There’s also certain variables from place to place, like having to manage two separate rooms,” he continued. “Or, numerous venues where we don’t have access to elevator service and we have to lug all of our equipment upstairs. If you’re a vendor who has never been to that particular venue and you haven’t allotted time to do that, you’re going to be late for someone’s biggest day of their lives. Using vendors that know the venue inside and out is paramount.”
“It’s all about keeping you immersed.” – Absolute Entertainment
To allow guest requests, or not to allow guest requests – it’s a common conundrum, and Absolute’s answer is nuanced. “It’s entirely up to the bride and groom,” Terrence said. “You’ve taken the time to curate a playlist with your entertainment, you trust that they’re experienced, and you trust that they have the ability to read your crowd. But If you’ve got great energy on the dance floor and it’s broken by a request, it takes a long time to get that energy back.”
“It’s our job to manage the psyches of hundreds of people, and there’s a science that goes into that,” Cenzo continued. “A set list is always done on the fly because you have to read the crowd and see what works. I’ve implemented a brutally honest ‘yes-no-maybe’ approach to requests. When a guest comes up and asks for a song, I’ll say either yes, it’s definitely going to come on at some point, no means don’t try asking again, and maybe means I’m going to try my best to squeeze it in.”
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If you want to allow requests from your guests, Terrence added an important caveat. “Do not ask your DJ to come over to the bride and groom and get their approval! The last thing you want is your MC running over to you throughout the evening asking you multiple questions that should not pertain to you. You should be in the moment with all of your friends and family, and you should not have to make a single decision on your wedding day. That should have been done during the communication and planning process.”
“It’s all about keeping you immersed,” Cenzo added.
Terrence, Cenzo, and the entire team at Absolute Entertainment want to wish you a very happy and healthy holiday season!