We spoke with BOLI Preferred Vendor Sweet Harmony about the artistry, intuition and behind‑the‑scenes magic of live music. It may not be the first thing couples think about, but it makes a beautiful and powerful impact on your wedding day.
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Live music has a unique way of transforming a wedding day — not just filling the air with sound, but shaping the emotion, timing and energy of every moment. For Sweet Harmony, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, that magic comes from the connection they build with each couple, and the intuitive way their musicians read a room.
Whether it’s slowing a processional to match a bride’s steps or creating a custom arrangement that feels deeply personal, their performances turn familiar songs into unforgettable memories. We sat down with founder Tara Bhrushundi to explore how live musicians bring a level of personalization no playlist can match.
Music Tailored to Your Love Story
Sweet Harmony approaches every ceremony with the belief that music should reflect a couple’s personality. Their song list — built and expanded continuously since 2008 — gives couples a huge starting point, but Tara says the real magic happens when clients bring in new ideas. “Today’s couples introduce us to so much interesting music, and we’re always learning something new,” she explains. Whether it’s adapting a TikTok‑famous track, arranging a hip‑hop song for strings or commissioning custom sheet music, their team has systems in place to transform any request into a meaningful, playable moment.
Choosing ceremony music can feel overwhelming, especially when couples are staring at a long song list and don’t know where to begin. Tara and her team start by asking about a couple’s style, theme or the overall feeling they want to create, and then offer suggestions and examples to help narrow the options. “A lot of people say they want something ‘slower,’ but what they really mean is romantic or emotionally powerful – so we listen carefully and ask for a reference recording to make sure we’re on the same page,” she explains. From sharing trends to sending sample recordings back and forth, Sweet Harmony works closely with each couple until every musical moment feels intentional, personal, and just right for their day.
Adapting in Real Time, No Matter What Happens
One of the biggest advantages of live musicians is their ability to adjust instantly to whatever unfolds during the ceremony. Tara shared how even something as simple as a flower girl’s walk can require on‑the‑spot creativity: “You never know what a little flower girl is going to do. She might run, she might wander off, she might take her time, so our musicians watch closely and shape the music to match.” They can repeat a song’s most recognizable section, add light flourishes or stretch out a moment without it ever sounding abrupt or repetitive. Dogs, kids, unexpected pauses — the musicians stay fully present so the moment feels seamless to guests.
In other cases, their adaptability smooths over moments that could otherwise feel awkward. Tara recalled a wedding where the officiant — the bride’s grandfather — accidentally began the ceremony before the bride had even walked down the aisle. “We jumped in with a grand, majestic flourish to reset the moment and give her the entrance she deserved,” she says. Unlike a recording, which can’t jump, fade or shift gracefully, live musicians can add intros, adjust endings and create transitions on the fly, ensuring every moment feels intentional and beautifully timed.
Behind‑the‑Scenes Coordination That Makes Everything Seamless
Sweet Harmony works closely with planners, venues and other vendors to make sure the musicians have everything they need long before the ceremony begins. Their event coordinator handles logistics like weather protection for string instruments, power access and equipment compatibility so the performers can focus entirely on the music. “A wedding brings so many people together for the first time, so our coordinator reaches out early to make sure everyone knows what we need — from umbrellas to chairs,” Tara explains.
On the day of, the musicians check in with officiants to confirm the exact cue for the recessional and coordinate with sound teams for smooth transitions. Whether it’s waiting for a final line, a joke or an introduction before starting the music, they make sure every moment lands exactly as intended.
The Lasting Impact of Live Music
Couples often tell Sweet Harmony that the live music ended up being one of the highlights of their entire wedding day. Many don’t realize just how powerful it will feel until they’re in the moment, hearing their processional or cocktail‑hour soundtrack performed just for them. Tara shared that guests notice it too: “People tell us their guests were complimenting the music all night, and that means so much to us — couples really want their guests to have an outstanding, memorable experience.”
Sweet Harmony also offers flexibility far beyond the ceremony. They can provide ensembles for cocktail hour, string quartets for full‑wedding ambiance or even pair electric violinists and saxophonists with a DJ to blend live performance into the reception. Whether couples want a single meaningful moment or music woven throughout the entire celebration, Sweet Harmony brings a level of artistry and emotion that elevates every part of the day.
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The day is about you, but you’ll still want to avoid the worst etiquette mistakes you can make as a couple.
One of the biggest pieces of advice we give to our brides of Long Island is this: “It’s your day, and you get to decide what’s best for you.”
While we wholeheartedly believe in that statement, you’ll still want to think about those who are coming together and making the day possible. Yes, the concept of “etiquette” certainly applies to your guests, but it applies to you and your fiancé too! There are ways that you can extend your gratitude and make the day a true celebration, and there are some mistakes you can make that will leave things on a sour note.
As you’re planning and prepping for your wedding, be sure to avoid some of the worst etiquette mistakes you can make as a couple. They may be totally unintentional, but giving some thought to them now can prevent any tension on the big day.
Image courtesy of Yellow House Images
Forgetting about your guests
This may seem like a no-brainer — of course you think about your guests, it’s not a party without them! However, there are choices you can make that may annoy or inconvenience them at best, and offend them at worst.
Think about who you are inviting. If you have some guests that are older and use mobility aids, like walkers or wheelchairs, how are they going to feel about an oceanside ceremony that’s a quarter mile away from the parking lot? If you’re inviting vegans, vegetarians, or those with other dietary restrictions, will they be hungry with no real options to choose from on your menu? If your hour-long ceremony starts at 2 but they cocktail hour doesn’t start until 7, how will your guests fill the time? And if that cocktail hour is outside in March, how will they keep warm? If you’ve skipped on plus ones but sit singles at tables with people they don’t know, how much fun will they have…especially if you only have a cash bar?
Your wedding should be a day about you and your new spouse. But if you truly don’t want to think about anyone else, eloping is the way to go.
Image courtesy of Citrine Visuals
Throwing your schedule out the window
Everyone is guilty of running late to things every now and then. Your wedding day, though? It’s crucial you stick to your schedule. Timelines are a big deal for a reason — a lot happens on your wedding day and it’s easy for things to get out of hand. Always keep an eye on the clock and keep things moving according to schedule. You’ve asked your guests to be on time for things, don’t keep them waiting.
This goes for events outside of the actual wedding, too. Be on time to your bridal shower, engagement party, bachelorette events, and rehearsal dinner.
Neglecting to appreciate to your bridal party
There’s more to being in a bridal party than dressing up and walking down an aisle. They plan (and pay for) various wedding activities, support you during the entire planning process, and take time out of their lives to celebrate you. Be sure to show them how grateful you are for their efforts! This is usually done with a gift close to the big day — jewelry, watches, clothing, or other small tokens of appreciation are appropriate.
Also, if you’re asking your girls to get ready together in the morning, feed them! You’ll have a long day ahead, and lots of hours before you’ll get the opportunity to eat. And if you’re requiring that they have their hair and makeup professionally done, it’s common courtesy to cover that cost.
Image courtesy of Studioworks Weddings
Not taking care of your vendors
Your vendors work hard to create the day of your dreams. They spend hours and hours of time on your wedding, both in preparation and on the actual day. For vendors that work your wedding events (like DJs and MCs, photographers and videographers, photo booth attendants, etc), you’ll need to make sure they’re fed during the festivities. Treat every member of your vendor team with respect — that goes for ALL vendors (and don’t forget to tip).
Forgetting to say “thank you”
Your wedding day will be a whirlwind to say the least. Between pictures, first dances, and cake cutting, you’ll seem like you’re rushing from one place to another. While you’ll definitely want to make sure you have a good time, it’s also important to thank those in attendance.
Receiving lines are an easy way to hit most of your guests at once, but if you don’t want to do one, find the time during your reception to address everyone. Going around to each table should allow you to say “thanks” to everyone there.
And once the big day has come and gone, get those thank you notes out!
Don’t stress over choosing a photographer or videographer, BOLI has the best wedding photographers on Long Island to create wedding day memories.
Your photographer and videographer aren’t just vendors, they’re the storytellers who preserve every laugh, tear and in‑between moment of your wedding day. They help shape your timeline, guide you through the flow of the day and often become the people you trust most in the whirlwind of it all. That’s why choosing the right fit matters. You want someone whose style speaks to you, whose presence puts you at ease and whose vision aligns with everything you’ve imagined for your best day ever.
But there are so many to choose from! Where do you begin? Well, you’re in luck because Brides of Long Island has some of the best photographers on Long Island as our Preferred Vendors. With the list below, you are bound to find someone great to work with.
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Silverfox Studios
If you’re looking for relaxed, candid, authentic photos or videos, Silverfox Studios is what you’re looking for. At Silverfox, you’ll be treated like a star and get the ‘Silverfox experience.’ Following in the footsteps of his grandfather, the Silverfox, John takes the time to get to know you as a couple and bring out the best in both of you.
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Yellow House Images
Andrew, owner of Yellow House Images, used to be a full-time journalist. As his friends started getting married, he would put together videos for them. He believes it is an honor to work with you and provide photos and videos of your special day for you.
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Capture the Moment Studios
Located in Hauppauge, Capture the Moment Studios is a boutique studio that will offer great attention to every detail of your wedding. They love to get to know the couples, so that on their wedding day they can capture all of your special moments. They offer photography and videography services.
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Heritage House
Heritage House photographers take the time to learn about you and your future spouse as a couple. They learn what you want and need for the big day and make sure you get it.
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Heartfelt Studio
The photographers and videographers at Heartfelt Studios live, eat and breathe weddings. They are a close-knit studio (their kids play together) – and they can’t wait for you to join their family and share your special day with them!
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Ken Hild Photography
Ken is a fine art and documentary based photographer, and he can’t wait to document your wedding day. He loves to capture a love story through his lens, and wants you to be able to re-live yours for years to come.
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KP Media
After working for several wedding studios over the years, Ken decided to establish KP Media, and he’s waiting for you to call and share your wedding day with him. He’s thankful to be living his dream, and he can’t wait to make your dream wedding come to life through his creativity.
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Marco Photography
If you’re looking for timeless, romantic and elegant photos, then contact Marco Photography for your wedding day photos. With over 30 years experience, the team at Marco Photography can’t wait to capture the most special and intimate day of your life.
Fade to Black New York
A former news photographer, owner Gil started Fade to Black New York 14 years ago. They have a studio in Mineola. He runs the business, which offers both photography and videography, with his sons. Gil says Fade to Black New York photographers and videographers offer a candid and photojournalistic approach to your wedding.
Studio 27 Photography
From the moment you walk into Studio 27 Photography, you are family. They pride themselves on being professional and giving you the best photos and videos, while at the same time making you feel at ease and at home. They believe in order to capture those real moments, they need to make you feel comfortable.
The Glenmar Studio
The Glenmar Studio is a family owned and operated photography and videography studio that has been around for over 80 years. The photographers love to capture those candid moments, as well as create timeless portraits.
Life Art Photographers
Since you’re spending most of your day with your photographers, why not get to know Life Art Photographers? With over 15 years experience, they embrace the chaos that a wedding day brings and bring out the best in you and your significant other through their photography.
Patken Photographer
Started in the basement of their home in Lindenhurst, Pat and Ken created Patken Wedding Photographer and Video. They hired their son Doug to take the business full time. And now they are one of the leading photography and cinema companies in the wedding industry. And while Doug has won awards for his work, the most rewarding moments are the emotions and love he feels at weddings.
JS Vision Photography and Cinematography
Established in 2012, this full service boutique studio prides itself on the most stunning photos on your wedding day. Located in Garden City, JS Vision Photography and Cinematography offers will capture your memories in photos and on film, taking both a journalistic and candid approach on your big day.
Park Ave Studio
Park Ave Studio, located in Ronkonkoma, has been in the wedding industry for almost 30 years. They can’t wait to work with you and set up your wedding day timeline. Whether they are photographing or videoing, their style is casual and light to keep your day stress free.
Bernard Alexis Photography
Bernard Alexis wants to help the start of your next journey in life. Celebrating two people’s love is pure magic, which is why he can’t wait to celebrate and capture all of your special moments.
Gelfman Photography
This boutique photography studio is run by a very much in-love couple who can’t wait to share in your love on your wedding day. They want to be friends so you are comfortable, relaxed and stress-free on your wedding day.
RF Films | Photography
RF Films wants to visually narrate the poetry of your story. This former television producer put aside the fast-paced TV environment for the fast-paced and beautiful wedding industry. And he’s ready to tell your story.
Miralli Photography
This unique boutique experience starts with a fun engagement shoot and includes a discreet, yet thorough, documentation of your wedding day.
Michael John Photography
If you believe in true love, romance and enjoying life to the fullest, then you have something in common with Michael of Michael John Photography. He will be there to lean on during any stressful moments during wedding planning and during the big day. And he promises to deliver beautiful and amazing photos capturing all of your precious moments.
Tino Photography
Tino Photography will create a documentary-based illustration of your wedding day. They promise to deliver photos that will live on for generations.
ADA Studio
At ADA, photography is more than just a job. It’s sharing an intimate and special day with you, and creating photos to capture those moments that you’ll treasure forever.
Studioworks Weddings
Let the photographers at Studioworks Weddings handle the tough stuff while you and your future spouse sit back and enjoy your special day. This boutique-style photography team works to ensure a unique experience for all of their brides.
Janelle Brooke Photography
Janelle Brooke and her team have been taking wedding photos for the last 15 years. She says her love for wedding photography has only grown year after year. It’s a boutique studio, and Janelle says she spends a lot of time getting to know her couples. When the wedding rolls around, it will be as if your best friend is taking photos to commemorate your big day.
Solaris Photo & Film
Courtney & Walter Blekicki are the couple behind Solaris Photo & Film. They understand how important capturing your special day is and are honored to be a part of it. They will make sure to get every emotion and every special moment so you can relive your magical day.
Jovon Photography
For over 40 years, JoVon Photography has been capturing couple’s precious moments. With a mix of editorial and candid photography, the team at JoVon brings a unique and artistic perspective to every wedding they capture. They work with all couples to customize your perfect day.
Foxlight Studios
The team at Foxlight Studios is inspired by telling stories through images – and they can’t wait to tell your story. They believe that the images and videos from your wedding should show the connection you share, the family you love and the moments you will never forget.
Lana Rowe Photography
The team at Lana Rowe Photography is excited to be a part of your special day and tell your unique story through their lens. They will be your partners in crime throughout your wedding planning and your wedding day, making sure everything is perfect for your big day.
Captured by Christina Anne Photography
Christina can’t wait to celebrate and capture your big day. She loves to meet new people and can’t wait to meet you. She’s a bride-to-be and understands how stressful planning can be. She wants to not only document the biggest day of your life, but she wants to help you navigate through the process too.
Focus Studios
At Focus Studios, they know how important and intimate your wedding day can be, so they believe photographers should feel like friends to support you and capture your memories. Their team is filled with experienced photographers and cinematographers who will bring your photography visions to life and make your wedding day memorable.
East Shore Wedding Photography
George and his team at East Shore Wedding Photography are ready to capture your love story on film and turn your fleeting moments into timeless memories. By blending artistry with authenticity, they ensure every detail of your wedding day is preserved with clarity and emotion.
Maria Love Photography
With almost 20 years experience, Maria Love can’t wait to tell your love story through her photos. She has been in love with fairytale weddings since she saw Cinderella at age 4. And she loves a good ceremony that might make her shed a tear.
Lumos Wedding Photography
This husband and wife duo has been working together for the past seven years – building their own dream life capturing the weddings of Long Island couples. They laugh together as best friends, and they can’t wait to watch you marry your best friend.
Citrine Visuals
Travis with Citrine Visuals keeps things light and fun, while capturing the big moments and the little things in between. With over a decade of experience, he and his laid back crew are easy to work with and will customize your day exactly how you envisioned it.
Think about how you want your wedding day to feel, then reach out to any of these incredible photo and video pros. As with every Brides of Long Island preferred vendor, you can trust that you’ll be in the very best hands from the first inquiry to the final gallery.
In Brides of Long Island’s Monthly “Mrs.” series, we profile some of our members’ unforgettable weddings. This month, Brooke talks about how a last-minute decision made her wedding day memorable.
(Photo by Michelle Marie Photography)
From a spontaneous night out with friends to a stunning fall wedding seven years later, Brooke and Patrick made it official on October 24, 2025 at The Bayview House at Captain Bills, a BOLI Preferred Venue.
Her Knight in Shining Armor
Brooke and Patrick’s story began on 11/11 — an especially meaningful date for Brooke, who has always been an “11:11 make‑a‑wish kind of person.” They were both out with friends when Brooke found herself cornered by an overly drunk, aggressive man. Before she could react, Patrick stepped in, placing himself between her and the stranger with an easy confidence that immediately made her feel safe. “He winked at me and said, ‘I thought you were struggling. I got you. My name’s Pat,’” Brooke recalled. The moment broke the tension, and the two spent the rest of the night talking and laughing. They clicked instantly and started dating almost right away.
After years of growing together through college and beyond, Patrick surprised Brooke with a day she’ll never forget. He planned a full date out east, starting with lunch at a quiet waterfront spot before taking her to RGNY Winery for a private tasting where they even made their own wine. “He bought eight bottles so we could open them for future special occasions,” Brooke said. Patrick proposed right there in the vineyard, surrounded by fall colors, and moments later both of their families appeared to celebrate with them.
Jumping Right In
Brooke and Patrick booked their venue within two weeks of getting engaged, knowing they wanted a shorter engagement and already having a clear sense of what they each envisioned. Brooke had always dreamed of renting out a restaurant for the night, while Patrick preferred a more traditional wedding venue. The Bayview House at Captain Bills offered the perfect blend of both. “It was the perfect mix,” Brooke said. “Bayview is owned by a restaurant, so it gave us exactly what we both wanted.” Its waterfront setting sealed the deal — sunset light poured through the space on their October wedding day, creating warm, glowing colors in every corner.
Once the venue was secured, Brooke focused on finding vendors who were independent and people she could genuinely connect with rather than large companies. Her photographer, Michelle Marie Photography, was the first vendor she booked and quickly became one of the most important. “I don’t think the day would have been the same without Michelle,” Brooke said. “She’s so sweet and she genuinely cares.” Michelle delivered 60 sneak peeks by the next afternoon.
(Photo by Michelle Marie Photography)
Hair and makeup took longer to find, but Brooke ultimately booked ARG Beauty, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, and AP Hair Designs after loving their work during her trials. “My hair and makeup didn’t budge all night,” she said.
The rest of their team rounded out the celebration perfectly, including a photo booth from BOLI Preferred Vendor JMC Photobooths and a late‑night pizza truck with cannolis on the dance floor courtesy of The Sicilian Wheel, a BOLI Preferred Vendor. Every vendor fit her vision, her budget and her easygoing planning style.
The Little Things to Make Her Day
Brooke said she truly “hit it home” with her vendors, but the biggest surprise of the day came from the content creator she booked just four weeks before the wedding. After buying a house, renovating it and planning a wedding all at once, she initially felt a content creator was out of budget. But after seeing the incredible work Brittany from The Bridal Club did for her sister‑in‑law, she reached out on a whim. “I didn’t even think she’d be available with that short of notice, but she was.” The next‑day content ended up being one of Brooke’s favorite parts of the entire experience.
One moment in particular meant everything: during their no‑phone ceremony, Brooke’s 2‑year‑old niece yelled, “Yay, Brookie!” as she walked down the aisle. “I didn’t think anyone got it,” Brooke said. “Then a few days later, I found it! Brittany had captured it. It was the sweetest surprise.”
(Photo by Michelle Marie Photography)
What made the day truly unforgettable were the quiet, emotional moments Brooke and Patrick carved out for each other. They did their first look at the Bayard Arboretum, a peaceful pause before the whirlwind ahead. “Seeing him for the first time was just so amazing,” Brooke said. “My day started at 7 a.m., and I didn’t see him until around 2. Finally getting to be together felt so special.”
After the ceremony, they slipped out to the docks to breathe, take in the waterfront views and soak in the reality of the day. They stayed side‑by‑side all night, intentionally experiencing every moment together. Her brother officiated, her best friend created all the décor by hand, and the sunset poured through the windows of The Bayview House — each detail adding another layer of meaning. “Everything just came together so beautifully,” she said. “We really got to live it together.”
Don’t Get Caught Up
Brooke leaned on the Brides of Long Island community from the very beginning, joining the page the day she got engaged and using it as her guide for nearly every decision. “I used the group to book every single one of my vendors,” she said. “The group swayed the majority of my decisions.” Her advice to other brides is to stay grounded and keep your circle small. “Try not to get so caught up in everything — decision fatigue is real,” she said. “Ask a few people you really trust, not a hundred. And remember that at the end of the day, it’s about you and your partner becoming husband and wife. Everything else is just details.”
(Photo by Michelle Marie Photography)
Vendors:
Venue: The Bayview House at Captain Bills, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Photographer: Michelle Marie Photography
Content Creator: The Bridal Club
Photo Booth: JMC Photobooths, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
DJ: Tommy Tunes, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Hair: AP Hair Designs (Amanda Perry)
Makeup: ARG Beauty (Alli Gonzalez), a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Dress: Ivory & Main Sayville, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Cannoli’s and Pizza Truck: The Sicilian Wheel, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
Transportation: Sir Oliver Transportation, a BOLI Preferred Vendor
After Party: Goodie Two Shoes
(Photo by Michelle Marie Photography)
Create an unforgettable first impression with these inspired ways to elevate your wedding invitations.
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Your wedding invitations are the very first glimpse your guests get of your celebration, which makes them a great opportunity to set the tone from the start. Choosing unique, thoughtful details not only helps your suite stand out in a sea of standard stationery, but also gives guests an immediate sense of your style, your story and the experience you’re inviting them into. Here are seven ways to make your wedding invitations stand out.
Custom Design
Working with a designer to create a custom invitation suite ensures your stationery feels completely unique to your love story. From hand‑drawn illustrations to bespoke monograms, this route gives you total creative freedom and a truly one‑of‑a‑kind first impression.
Unique Shapes or Materials
Choosing an unexpected shape or material instantly elevates your invitations and makes them feel more like keepsakes than paper goods. Think acrylic, vellum, arch‑shaped cards or layered textures that add dimension and surprise.
Bold Color Palettes
Leaning into rich, vibrant colors can turn your invitation suite into a true statement piece that reflects your wedding aesthetic. Whether you go moody, pastel or full‑on jewel‑tone, a confident color choice sets the tone long before guests arrive.
Digital Invites
Digital invitations are a modern, eco‑friendly option that still allow for beautiful design and personalization. They’re perfect for couples who want to streamline communication, send updates quickly or keep everything neatly stored online.
QR Code RSVP (Featuring Ring Leader!)
Adding a QR code to your invitation makes RSVPing effortless for guests. And the best app to do this? Our Ring Leader app, of course! Keep everything organized in one place with Ring Leader’s built‑in RSVP feature that lets you track responses, meal choices and guest details instantly, without the stress of managing loose cards or spreadsheets.
Adding Your Own Unique Items
Including personal elements — like a sketch of your pet, a map of your venue or a custom wax seal — adds meaning and personality to your invitation suite. These small touches help guests feel connected to your story before the celebration even begins.
Non‑Traditional Wording
Playing with unexpected or playful wording can instantly set your invitations apart and give guests a feel for your wedding vibe. Whether you lean romantic, humorous or boldly modern, your language can be just as memorable as the design itself.
No matter which direction you choose, the details you include in your invitations help set the tone for the celebration your guests will soon step into. When you lead with creativity and intention, your suite becomes more than stationery — it becomes the first chapter of your wedding story.
In Brides of Long Island’s “Am I a Bridezilla?” the BOLI team weighs in on an anonymous submission asking that dreaded question. What do you think?
Dear BOLI,
My whole family is mad at me over my rehearsal dinner plans, and I need you to tell me if I’m being a bridezilla or not.
A wedding is supposed to be about the bride and groom, but it seems like every event is for other people. We’re having a huge reception with all this delicious food, and over and over again I keep hearing “you’re not going to have time to eat, you have to take pictures.” We got an amazing DJ and really stressed about picking a good playlist, and again I keep hearing “you probably won’t dance that much, you’ll be busy going around to all the tables.” It sounds like everyone is going to have a good time except for my fiancé and me.
Because this upset me, I decided to make our rehearsal dinner private between me and my fiancé. We’re going out to one of our favorite restaurants after our rehearsal, and everyone else can be responsible for their own meals the night before the wedding.
My mom and dad are furious at me for this. They say it’s very rude to not have a rehearsal dinner or a welcome party for your family, close friends, and out of town guests. I don’t want to do that. I want to take ONE night in this whole thing and do something for me.
So am I being a bridezilla?
Sincerely,
Solo rehearsal dinner
Dear Solo rehearsal dinner,
Are you a bridezilla? Yes and no.
I totally understand where you’re coming from. Wedding planning is stressful, and it does seem at times like you’re planning a big party for everyone else to enjoy. That being said, the party is to celebrate you and your new spouse — your friends and family are probably not going to just all get together on a random Saturday, they are there for you because they love and care about you.
As for what everyone is saying about not getting to eat, not getting to dance, etc…trust me when I say that you totally CAN eat, dance, and enjoy yourself at your wedding. And you SHOULD! Sit down with your fiancé and make a list of priorities, whether that be getting to attend the cocktail hour or getting to really enjoy your playlist. Then, let your vendor team know. Your bridal attendant, photographer, wedding planner, or anyone else who is by your side on the big day will make sure you get to do all of the things you want to do. That’s part of their job.
Now, to the rehearsal dinner. Yes, it is proper etiquette to host a dinner for those who are involved with the rehearsal and for those who have traveled long distances for the wedding. Again, remember that this isn’t a random event you’re throwing for your family and friends. People have taken time out of their lives to be a part of this huge moment in your life. Your bridal party, family, and friends have almost certainly shelled out a lot of money, taken time off of work, and possibly turned down other social engagements to be there for you. Hosting a rehearsal dinner is one of the ways you can say “thank you.” Do you HAVE to host one? No, you don’t HAVE to do anything when it comes to your wedding. But it is a way to show appreciation.
If you want to do a private dinner with your fiancé (which is a great idea), I would suggest doing it the night before the rehearsal. That moment will be the “calm before the storm” in a sense, and it would give you both the opportunity to connect before things get hectic.
I’ll also say this — take some private time with each other on your actual wedding day. Slip away to the bridal suite for 5 minutes, go outside, anything. Take it all in with your new spouse. I promise you, you’ll remember those moments forever.
Wondering if you’re a bridezilla? Email your anonymous questions to jennifer@bridesofli.com
You’re bound to find the perfect gown at one of these bridal salons on Long Island.
It’s finally time! You’ve probably been dreaming about this day for a long time. It’s time to go wedding dress shopping! Whether you’re laser‑focused on a specific designer or just excited to try on every style under the sun, this is your moment. We’ve gathered 16 of the best bridal salons on Long Island to make your shopping experience unforgettable. Call your mom, text your bestie, and start the hunt for the gown that feels like you.
Bridal Salon of Huntington Village
Huntington
This is a full service luxury bridal boutique filled with designer gowns at desired prices. Located in the heart of Huntington Village, its team of bridal consultant professionals have over 20 years experience. The Bridal Salon of Huntington Village is dedicated to making sure you look and feel absolutely stunning in your gown.
Bella Bridesmaids
Huntington
These two friends are new to the Long Island wedding industry – but they have experience that is top notch! Bella Bridesmaids offers a unique and customized experience shopping for bridesmaids’ dresses!
Blu Rayne Bridal Boutique
Commack
Get a full hands-on experience at Blu Rayne Bridal Boutique. At this dress shop, they’ll work side by side with you to choose the perfect gown for your wedding day.
Bridal Suite of Centereach
Centereach
If you’re looking for a modern experience with an old-fashion twist, then the Bridal Suite of Centereach is for you. You get one-on-one time with a bridal consultant, who will be with you and your gown the entire time – from choosing ‘the one’ to alterations and more.
North Fork Bridal Shoppe
Wading River
Shopping for a dress should be fun and not stressful, and the team at North Fork Bridal Shoppe want to make sure it stays that way! Each of their suites are private for you and your besties to relax and be comfortable while you find your dress gown.
Burton’s Bridals
Melville
Burton’s one-on-one policy is to ensure all of their brides get the best, customized experience. They can make anything happen to the gowns, so it will be easy to bring your vision to life.
The Wedding Plaza
Floral Park
The Wedding Plaza is a one-stop shop for the bride and the groom! As a valuable member of your wedding party team, the staff is there for you every step of the way to make sure you and your fiancé look your best on your wedding day.
The Bridal World
Freeport
A family-owned boutique, The Bridal World creates a warm and inviting atmosphere for all brides to feel comfortable trying on their gowns. If you make your appointment during the week, you’ll get lucky enough to have the whole shop to yourself as you browse their beautiful dresses.
Max Bridal
Syosset
What started as a small shop in Mineola has now turned into a full service bridal salon in Syosset at double the size, double the staff and double the amount of gorgeous designer dresses. With their 90 minute appointments, you’re bound to fall in love with ‘the one’ at Max Bridal.
Village Bridal
Babylon
Village Bridal is a family-owned and operated bridal boutique in Babylon. Its staff is both excited and honored to be a part of your special day, and will work hard to find the perfect gown that makes you look and feel your best.
Bridal Reflections
Carle Place
With three locations – two on Long Island and one in New York City – Bridal Reflections has been a mainstay for over 50 years. Their consultants are always paying attention to every detail to ensure a great experience shopping for your perfect dress.
Ivory & Main
Sayville
This is New York’s first exclusively plus size bridal gown boutique. Ivory & Main focuses on brides sized 12-32, but all brides are welcome to shop! In addition to different dress styles, they feature wedding accessories to complete your wedding day look.
Bridal Suite of Bay Shore
Bay Shore
This family-owned bridal shop has been around since 1964. The tight-knit team is ready to help you find your dream gown, and help your mother, mother-in-law and bridal party find the perfect dresses for your big day.
Here Comes the Bridesmaid & Mom
Bethpage
If you’re looking for the perfect bridesmaid dresses (or a gown for mom), Here Comes the Bridesmaid & Mom is the shop for you. They specialize in helping bridesmaids, mothers and brides! They are appointment only, so make sure to call before heading in with your bride tribe.
Simply White Bridal
East Northport
Simply White Bridal was founded by Eline Bertsch, a passionate individual with a rich background in the bridal industry. Offering one-on-one appointments, the staff at Simply White Bridal will be there every step of the way as you search for your dream wedding gown. From selecting your dress to fittings and alterations, they want to make sure you look your best on your wedding day.
Kleinfeld Bridal
New York City
For more than 70 years, Kleinfeld Bridal has been helping thousands of brides find their perfect wedding day dress. With one of the largest selections of designer gowns, their staff of more than 200 professionals are ready to find your wedding look – from gown to veil and whatever else you envision for your big day. Kleinfeld operates by appointments only, so make sure you call ahead to set up yours.
Once you’re ready to go dress shopping, keep these tips in mind:
- Have an idea of the style of dress – if you’re unsure, check out Pinterest or the BOLI page for some inspiration
- Bring a few friends and/or your mother and future mother-in-law. The fewer people might make it easier to choose in the end.
- Keep an open mind! Just because you have your heart set on a mermaid gown – try on that A-line. You might surprise yourself.
- Speak up! If you don’t like something, make sure you say so. You’re spending a lot of money to look your best. Make sure it’s the perfect dress for you! And remember, it’s OK to shop around.
- Speak up! If you don’t like something, make sure you say so. You’re spending a lot of money to look your best. Make sure it’s the perfect dress for you! And remember, it’s OK to shop around.
- MORE: 6 Things to Wear When Dress Shopping
We can pretty much guarantee that if you check out one of the 16 best bridal salons on Long Island, you won’t be disappointed. Happy gown shopping!
Cristina’s personalized approach ensures every bride steps into their wedding day feeling supported, pampered and glowing.
(Photo courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty)
Cristina Ashley has always had two great loves: teaching and makeup. After graduating with a teaching degree, she struggled to find a full‑time position. So, she decided to lean into her longtime passion for makeup artistry, something she’d practiced for friends and family throughout high school and college. She went back to school, earned her certification and built a career that blended creativity with connection.
Today, while balancing life with two young children and teaching pre‑K, Cristina is also pouring her heart into her own business, Cristina Ashley Beauty, LLC, a BOLI Preferred Vendor, dedicated to helping brides look and feel their most beautiful on their wedding day.
From Corporate to Entrepreneur
Upon completing her certification, Cristina had big dreams of working for MAC. “I wanted to work in their biggest, best flagship store in Times Square,” said Cristina. She began as a freelancer and quickly moved up, earning additional certifications through MAC’s program and mastering a wide range of techniques and makeup styles.
Her experience eventually led her to Shiseido, where she worked as a training executive on both the corporate and retail sides of the industry. “I worked at several other big‑name companies for about seven years after that, and I loved it,” Cristina shared. But when COVID hit, she felt called to slow down, spend more time on Long Island with her newborn and focus fully on her growing side business.
Cristina eventually returned to her first love — teaching pre‑K on Long Island — while continuing to grow her beauty business, which officially became an LLC in 2025. “And now, I’m so grateful to be part of Brides of Long Island,” said Cristina. “This community is incredible, and I’m truly excited for the future.”
(Photo courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty)
A Tailored Natural Soft Glam Look
Cristina’s signature style is natural, soft glam, “a look that enhances each bride’s features without ever masking who they are,” she says. Every application is completely individualized, never cookie‑cutter and begins with a detailed trial where she pinpoints the exact elements a bride wants on her wedding day. Her goal is simple: to make sure each bride looks like herself, just elevated with glowing confidence.
That personalized approach carries through to her techniques and products, from offering both traditional and airbrush makeup to hand‑building custom lashes for every client. “My favorite moment is when brides see themselves in the mirror for the first time,” said Cristina. “It is a true ‘wow’ moment. Not because they look different, but because they feel amazing.” She added that the makeup is lightweight, never heavy or caked, allowing each bride to feel beautiful from the inside out.
(Photo courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty)
More Than Just Makeup
For Cristina, bridal beauty is about so much more than makeup. As a Shiseido‑certified artist, she offers Japanese facial massage, oxygen treatments and under‑eye therapies to help brides achieve that healthy, wedding‑day glow from the inside out. “It’s the whole picture of getting ready,” she explained. “I want the skin fortified, nourished and glowing before we even start makeup.” Cristina, who speaks Spanish, travels throughout the tri‑state area and customizes every experience — whether a bride wants full glam, a morning‑of skin ritual or touch‑ups throughout the day.
The values she brings to each client relationship are as essential as her services. Cristina builds her business on integrity, honesty and communication — qualities she believes every bride deserves. “You get full transparency with me,” she said. “This is who I am, this is what I do, and these are the three things I exemplify when working with a bride.” Whether she’s caring for the bride, bridesmaids or mothers, Cristina leads with trust, clarity and genuine connection, creating a seamless and supportive beauty experience.
(Photo courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty)
Live in the Moment
Cristina has had many unforgettable brides, but two stand out as reminders of why she loves what she does. One was the sister of her childhood best friend — a bride navigating the deep emotions of getting married without her father, who had passed two years earlier. Cristina not only did her makeup but wrote her a heartfelt card filled with memories of her dad. “She told me it touched her heart and made her day,” Cristina recalled. “In moments like that, you’re not just a makeup artist. You wear many different hats, and sometimes you’re the comfort someone needs.”
Another moment that stays with her came from a bride who switched artists just one week before the wedding, choosing Cristina out of nearly 40 options because she wanted someone who would truly focus on her. After the trial and the wedding‑day glam, the bride saw herself in the mirror and burst into grateful tears. She later wrote Cristina a handwritten note, explaining, “You listened. You understood the assignment. You captured exactly what I wanted.” For Cristina, that reaction, and the connection behind it, is everything.
And when it comes to advice for brides, she keeps it simple: “Enjoy the day and enjoy the process. Life goes fast, the wedding goes fast — so live in the moment.”
(Photo courtesy of Cristina Ashley Beauty)
The partnership brings high-fashion gowns and menswear under one roof.
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal
This looks like the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
BOLI Preferred Vendor Kleinfeld Bridal, iconic leaders in wedding fashion and famed setting of TLC’s “Say Yes to the Dress,” announced they’ll be joining forces with Generation Tux, known for their luxury suits and tuxedos. Brides of Long Island will soon be able to shop for their wedding day ensemble alongside their fiancés, with Generation Tux’s first-ever Manhattan showroom opening inside Kleinfeld’s flagship store.
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal
“We are thrilled to welcome Generation Tux to the Kleinfeld family,” said Kleinfeld CEO Ronnie Rothstein in a recent press release. “This partnership allows us to provide Kleinfeld’s luxury experience to couples, bringing high-quality menswear and dedicated service to our brides, grooms, and guests under one roof.”
Housed on Kleinfeld’s second floor, the menswear outfitters will feature over 25 suit and tuxedo styles and hundreds of accessory colors. Generation Tux will also offer dedicated stylists that will allow grooms, their wedding party and family to explore a “curated assortment of suits, tuxedos, and in-store exclusives,” according to the press release.
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal
“We’re honored to partner with Kleinfeld, an iconic name in the wedding world that has helped define the wedding experience across generations,” said Jason Jackson, President and COO of Generation Tux. “Opening our first Manhattan showroom inside Kleinfeld allows us to pair our modern approach to menswear with the elevated, high-touch experience couples expect when they walk through their doors. Together, we’re creating a seamless and inspiring destination for every part of the wedding style journey.”
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal
As Kleinfeld and Generation Tux “lean into the modern trend of couples doing much of the wedding milestones together,” the partnership enables both bride and groom to choose their attire at the same time, adding convenience and connection to the experience.
Generation Tux suits and tuxedos seen online will soon be available at the Manhattan showroom for rent or purchase. Additionally, when 5 people in the wedding party get their suits or tuxes from Generation Tux, the groom will receive his rental for free!
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal
For more information or to book an appointment, visit Kleinfeld’s at Brides of Long Island or www.kleinfeldbridal.com
Photo Credit: Melanie Greene, GreenehouseNYC, LLC via Kleinfeld Bridal